The only way to know your status is to test. You can obtain your conclusive negative test result 3 months post exposure.
Get your partner to test or just test yourself,Take an HIV DUO test if it's avaliable to you at 4 weeks and be sure to follow up at 12 weeks for a final and conclusive result.All the best.
The only way to know your status is if YOU test. You can't judge your status based on "symptoms" or your partner's test result.
Test at 3 months post exposure for a conclusive result.
From now on, you must insist on condoms. If you don't and continue to engage in M2M unprotected anal sex, there is a good chance HIV will be in your future. Sex lasts a moment, HIV lasts a lifetime.
Actually,why don't you both test.