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FFM three some and HIV Risk
Hi - I had a three some with two women from a spa. One of the girl sucked my penis and licked other one’s vagina alternatively for a few minutes. ie. did oral on male and female around the same time. I was not wearing a condom at that point. Now I’m really worried if I exposed to HIV risk ? Can you pls advise ?
Oral sex is never a risk no matter the genders or how many people involved. Air and saliva inactivates the virus. Therefore, this exposure is no risk. The only risks for HIV is having unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing IV drug needles. So, you had zero risk.
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Thanks very much GuitarRox. It’s very clear now.
Great. I'm glad to hear you feel better about it.
Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air (his and her hands, mouth, lips etc. which is not a risk for hiv.). No hiv worries, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. Next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself if you did any of the 3, then after you say "Nope, I didn't" then it's time to move on back to your happy life.
You had Covid risk though because it is not fragile, so you are worrying about the wrong virus.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. Next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself if you did any of the 3, then after you say "Nope, I didn't" then it's time to move on back to your happy life.
You had Covid risk though because it is not fragile, so you are worrying about the wrong virus.
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Oh thanks very much. I was so worried and stressed out. It’s a great reliever.
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