I'll try to keep the story short...
Last May, I had my only encounter outside my 2 1/2 year relationship. We had protacted anal sex all night and then fell asleep. The next morning, I woke up to him spooning me. He inserted himself briefly (unprotected) until I quickly pulled away. He claims to not remember this. 5 weeks later, I developed walking pneumonia and started to freak out thinking it was ARS. Since then
1. Blood test at 6 weeks - Negative
2. Oraquick test at 7 weeks - negative
3. Oraquick for both me and him at 3 months (August) - negative.
I was extremely paranoid about the situation, but he assured me everything was alright and that he always used protection. I thought everything was okay until I went to gest tested again today. I have been fighting something horrible this week (possible sinus infection) and it spurred my internet obsession again. I started getting ideas and and went to get tested. This time, it was a POSITIVE.
I told the councilor all the details and that there was only one time it could have happened, and he said it was very rare to get it from a single time. He also pointed out that for every 10 positives he sees, about 3 or 4 are false. I called my boyfriend (we have had unprotected sex since this incident) to the clinic and he tested NEGATIVE. The guy who I was with that night will be testing tomorrow.
In my head, it doesn't make sense. Could both of our 3 month test results been wrong? What is the likelyhood this test is a FALSE POSITIVE...or do I really have HIV?