Fear of HIV

[Betsu]

Hi I started hearing rumors that my bf is taking meds for HIV so I went and get tested because I was paranoid, test was negative . The thoughts was still on my mind then I start having heart burn, burning sensation in my stomach, back pains, headaches and fatigue. I return 25 days later took another test and its still negative, but these symptoms are still affecting me I feel like I'm going crazy. I keep checking my body for rashes, lumps and other signed please help

[JamesD1991]

Like RubyWitch told you, I advise you get a DUO test done at 28 days past your last unprotected vaginal and/or anal intercourse.

I also agree you need to have a long talk with your boyfriend as well.  I am  curious as to who you heard these rumors from, and I think you need to find out what all is being hid from you, whether that includes taking HIV medicine or not.

The good news is, IF he is positive and taking medicine, the likelihood of him transmitting the virus to you is much more slim than you would possibly think.

Good luck with everything and I am hoping for the best.   Keep us updated!

[Betsu]

My risk to exposure was high because we don't use condoms, all my friends are telling me not yo stress so much because 2 test came back negative I talk to my bf he said I listen to rumors to much I ask him to get tested he refuse and told me I must go get tested if I have no faith In him which I did, but my mind is still not at ease and these burning feelings in my chest and stomach started when I heard the rumors. I got 2 national rapid test algorithms done.

[RubyWitch]

You need to have a long talk with your bf.

What was your risk?

If you had a 4th generation DUO test at 28 days post exposure, the results are conclusive.

See a doctor if your symptoms continue, but they sound like anxiety to me.