I suggest you get tested for HIV right away if the encounter was at least 3 or 4 weeks ago, you can get some degree of knowledge about your status. If positive, then that's it. If negative, re-test at around the 8th or 9th weeks and if still negative, you can start forgetting about it being HIV.
you contact was too brief and the guy said he isn't HIV+. I think is unlikely you are infected but still only tests tell the truth, the facts.
The encounter was only 2 weeks ago. I'm pretty certain that the condom wasn't torn because he held it up when he pulled the tip out of his anus. I'm also pretty sure that it came off on withdrawal.
Still I want to get tested asap. What is the first window for a test?
if the condom came off on withdrawal, you had no risk and should forget this incident and move on.
still, I don't have a video of you 2 having sex to watch what happened with more accuracy to say if there was risk or not.
My advice: get tested at 6 weeks. it doesn't hurt to know your status even if this particular event didn't put you at risk.
That's good to know. I had put the whole horrible night out of my mind until I was suddenly struck with this terrible flu.
I will get tested at 6 weeks. So 4 more weeks to wait. Yikes!!!