I am male, 35, uncircumcised, from south east asia.
I have two potential sexual exposures.
1. I had unprotected gential rubbing from a cw. She was on top and rubbing her vagina against my penis for 30 secs. Felt wet probably her vaginal fluid. Then have a protected sex for 3 min max. No other activities. After 3 months from this exposure i had 2 genital warts on my penis shaft (middle). Is there any risk of contracting hiv from genital rubbing.
2. Later 10 months had a unprotected oral sex with a another sex worker.several time (deep throated) with lot of salaiva. And had protected sex. During intercourse i have noticed that csw starts menstruation and my condom covered with blood and also my pubic hair in groin area. while changing a position i removed condom and my genital warts exposed to menstrual blood in groin area, later she gave me unprotected oral and i have used new condom for further sex. 10 days Later i have came to know she is hiv positive during her regular health checkup.
I got scared because of unprotected oral sex (possibly her blood may contact my urethera through her hand or mouth)
And also many websites state menstrual blood is more infectious and having contact with genital warts increases risk upto 80%.( my warts are not bleed or sore, it was dry and looks intact but in a closer look it has tiny pores like appearance). Would this pose hiv transmission?
Please advise i want to know my odds and this two exposures does warrant a testing?