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Getting Hell lot of Tension, Please help me

Hi Doc,

Yester day I had sex with a Sex worker, I used condom but what I did is ; I Licked her ***** for 2 min with my tounge.

on my lip I had a small ulcer (I dont know that Oral sex is not safe.. that time)

But now I'm scared.. I dont have any cuts on my tunge.. Do I still have a chance to get HIV....

Please clarify me Doctor... I'm very much worrying about this...

Please under stand my feelings..... waiting for your response........
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Your friend information is incorrect.There have been many studies conducted to establish if oral sex is a risk of hiv transmission and the conclusion was no risk.Your friend should have told you that saliva neutralizes the virus and thus its ability to infect is zero.You never had a risk of hiv transmission and do not require testing.Once again your friend should have encouraged you to test for other STD,s.
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You did not have a risk based on protected sex and oral sex.
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You never had a risk of hiv transmission via oral sex,Ulcer or no ulcer it doesn,t matter.Test for other STD,s however, but not hiv.You can stop worrying about this situation and get some rest.All the best.
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Just now I have discussed with my frined (who is working as a lab assistance), and he said  that if you have cuts or Ulcer then You can get HIV.....

After his reply, I'm completly worrying abt that....

Please let me know your suggestions.....

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Do I need HIV test after 3 months?
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Than you evry much for your response.......You people are really doing a great job...

God bless you all..
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By reading your posts daily, i'm getting some courage. but still i'm thinking crazy.

In wikipedia and in some other sites, they have mentioned that, I you have open sore in your mouth then it will increase the risk. But you people are saying that "It doesn't change any thing and NO RISK".

I'm very much worried...Please let me know the fact, why other site people are still saying there is a risk.

Please i'm asking this on behalf all the people who are having HIV anxity..

Please try to understand by position.... No sleep since 4 weeks...
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The information that you are referring to is solely theoretical- oral sex has not been confirmed as a risk factor for HIV transmission. Anybody can author an article on Wikipedia so you have to be highly skeptical of the accuracy of the information there. Same thing with Yahoo Answers and similar sources of information. I suggest that you read what the expert doctors here have to say about oral sex (cunnilingus in particular). Just use the search function on the HIV Prevention and International Expert forums.
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So in may Case, I have got comments saying that "I never had a risk and do not require testing".  

My main problem is due to that Ulcer which I had during my sex (after two days It completly dissapeared).

since 4 weeks I don't have any problem except Anxity, but still  that Ulcer fear is killing me..

Please let me know your comments..
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No incident HIV infections among MSM who practice exclusively oral sex.
Int Conf AIDS 2004 Jul 11-16; 15:(abstract no. WePpC2072)??Balls JE, Evans JL, Dilley J, Osmond D, Shiboski S, Shiboski C, Klausner J, McFarland W, Greenspan D, Page-Shafer K?University of California, San Francisco, San Francisco, United States

Oral transmission of HIV, reality or fiction? An update
J Campo1, MA Perea1, J del Romero2, J Cano1, V Hernando2, A Bascones1
Oral Diseases (2006) 12, 219–228

AIDS: Volume 16(17) 22 November 2002 pp 2350-2352
Risk of HIV infection attributable to oral sex among men who have sex with men and in the population of men who have sex with men

Page-Shafer, Kimberlya,b; Shiboski, Caroline Hb; Osmond, Dennis Hc; Dilley, Jamesd; McFarland, Willie; Shiboski, Steve Cc; Klausner, Jeffrey De; Balls, Joycea; Greenspan, Deborahb; Greenspan
Page-Shafer K, Veugelers PJ, Moss AR, Strathdee S, Kaldor JM, van Griensven GJ. Sexual risk behavior and risk factors for HIV-1 seroconversion in homosexual men participating in the Tricontinental Seroconverter Study, 1982-1994 [published erratum appears in Am J Epidemiol 1997 15 Dec; 146(12):1076]. Am J Epidemiol 1997, 146:531-542.

Studies which show the fallacy of relying on anecdotal evidence as opposed to carefully controlled study insofar as HIV transmission risk is concerned:

Jenicek M. "Clinical Case Reporting" in Evidence-Based Medicine. Oxford: Butterworth–Heinemann; 1999:117
Saltzman SP, Stoddard AM, McCusker J, Moon MW, Mayer KH. Reliability of self-reported sexual behavior risk factors for HIV infection in homosexual men. Public Health Rep. 1987 102(6):692–697.Nov–Dec;

Catania JA, Gibson DR, Chitwood DD, Coates TJ. Methodological problems in AIDS behavioral research: influences on measurement error and participation bias in studies of sexual behavior. Psychol Bull. 1990 Nov;108(3):339–362.

There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex. The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way. Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk". There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".

"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Please educate yourself about the real risks. If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. " DR HANSFIELD

"I am sure you can find lots of people who believe that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..." DR HOOK

"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK

in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?

"HIV is not spread by masturbation, through oral sex, through kissing or other casual contact." Dr.Hook

"The observation on thousands and thousands of observations is that HIV is not spread by oral sex (of any sort)." DR HOOK
HIV is not transmitted by oral sex. Saliva contains over a dozen different enzymes and proteins that inhibit HIV transmission.
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Licking Vagina with toung, with the presence of mouth Ulcer or blood = NO RISK and not require HIV testing

Please confirm.
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Everyone on this thread who told you that read your post and understood it. No need to keep repeating your situation or us to keep repeating ourselves..
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