HELP PLEASE

[mommyhelp861]

My boyfriend was deployed overseas for a year. He came back on March 3 and we had unprotected oral and vaginal and last saturday we had vaginal sex again.  Yesterday, he called me and told me that the base called him for his blood work and they told him that the results for his HIV came back positive.  Im freaking out now and don't know what to do.  Im going crazy. Im panicking, im scared.  What are the chances of a negative result?

[mommyhelp861]

I just wanted to keep you guys updated about the situation. On September 1 I did my blood test and yesterday got the results......I'M HIV NEGATIVE.  I also did a thorough lab work for all STD's and they are all NEGATIVE as well.  Thank you all for your support and prayers.  These have been the longest 6 months but I was worth it because I learned to pray and believe blindly in God.

[mommyhelp861]

Thanks vicky. i know I am and will be fine.  I have no doubt in my mind/

[mommyhelp861]

He told me that he doesn't care about the results right now since he is enjoying himself with his nieces and nephews in some other states.  I didn't ask anything.  All I know is God kept His promises to me. Thanks so much for your help emrec.

[nursegirl6572]

She got her result, she is negative.  You need to move on!!!!    Enough is enough, quit hijacking others' threads.

[vickydonor701]

hi look im equally disturbed like u despite my ex being tested negative at 1month post my exosure i did every test in the books all are negative at 1month but im still depressed as i know i have to wait till 3months rest all said and done DONT WORRY YOU WILL BE ALRIGHT GOD IS WITH YOU N EVERYONE U ARE N SHALL BE FINE JUST HAVE FAITH I WILL PRAY FOR YOU N ALL OTHER WHO MAY OR MAY NOT BE INFECTED BY THIS DEADLY VIRUS

[emrec]

I am very happy for you it is a very nice news and what about your boyfriend his test resutl came or not yet ?

[mommyhelp861]

I got my results today and I am NEGATIVE... Thank you Lord!!!

[mommyhelp861]

I have an appointment with my doctor today and also with a therapist. she is going to order some stds tests on me

[Vance2335]

You need to talk with him to see if he had his confirmation test. This might just be a false positive by him.

[akssoni]

u can get duo test.odds in ur favour u will be negative

[mommyhelp861]

He has never said anything to me.  He left me because he felt bad for what happened.  I am getting tthe oral result next week

[Vance2335]

We really can't help with the anxiety/panic issues on this forum. We do have an anxiety forum.

Has your bf gotten his confirmation test done yet? Results back from that test?

[mommyhelp861]

Hello all,

I am having trouble staying asleep, i woke up with my heart beating fast and kinda sweating. I hate feeling that way. In the morning i am fine but at night I feel nervous n cant even breath.Help with advise please. ;-(

[nursegirl6572]

The OP's BF has not even been confirmed POS yet, and chances are his pos result was a false pos.  That is more likely than him actually having HIV.  She is following testing protocol, hopefully her and her BF will have this all cleared up very soon.

[ember69]

It may give you some comfort to know that a very recent study done in East Africa showed that on average HIV is transmitted 1 in every 900 instances of heterosexual intercourse when one partner is HIV positive.  I have a good friend who is HIV positive and didn't know it for a very long time, but he never infected his wife, she remains negative. If your boyfriend is indeed positive, you do have a decent chance of also being infected, however there is a very good chance you weren't infected.  Since you have been exposed, I would definitely go get as baseline test and then wait 3months and then 6 to be sure. Him being positive does not automatically mean you are, even if he did ejaculate inside of you.  I hope the best for you and please keep in mind that even if you are positive, you can still live a long a fruitful life with the current treatment options available.  

[mommyhelp861]

Thanks for all the replies.  I truly appreciate your help. Im praying and waiting for the results of my oral test.  Please do same for me. Thanks

[mommyhelp861]

thanks for your words dear.   I am waiting on the oral test result. I did it yesterday although its been 10 days since last exposure.

[loverboy995]

watch this!!  you are going to see you have chance of not get infected
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ojx1A3Jmx2w

i would say to you,, calm down a bit baby
i know how hard it is, i had sex with a girl, i did not know her hiv status
i used condom for penetration, but i did oral sex to her with no condom
and i had a wound in my lips so, here says i had no risk.

4 week i went to lab i did hiv1 and hiv2 test,  it came out negative
then. at 6 week i took the girl i had sex with and she did the same test
it came out negative!!

i was so depresed... its crazy i still do... i will do test again at the end of the next month.... but listen this video i send you are going to see that even if a person is hiv + you have hope of be safe and not get the virus....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ojx1A3Jmx2w

[mommyhelp861]

You should see the amount of information that they have on the internet.  but you know what, Im done looking on the internet and I will look at my bible for my answer.

[Worriedkit]

Stay off from the Internet , calm down and wait for the blood test result . I know it is hard to wait but I believe you can make it . You need to control yourself , anxious can kill you , don't think too much . Information on Internet not all true , sometimes got false information also .

[mommyhelp861]

ok thanks Lizzie.  I realize that i get more angst everytime I search the net

[LIZZIE LOU]

the best thing you can do for yourself is to STOP feeding your anxiety.  get off the internet, searching for HIV.

[mommyhelp861]

I am having a serious anxiety attack right now. I cant breath, those two weeks of waiting for the results are killing me.  OMG!!!! I read so much on the internet about how women gets infected easier than men.  HELP ME PLEASE

[mommyhelp861]

Worriedkit:

Thanks so much for lifting me up in your prayers.  I really appreciate it.  I went yesterday to do my oral and have to wait 2 week for the results.  And then I have to do the blood one in 6 weeks.  The nurse said that I need to test for other STD as well so the doc is going to order them for me.  God is good.