HIV Concern

[jk626]

Hi everyone,

   I am very anxious to my HIV risk. I am from south east Asia. The massage girl suddenly put her vaginal on my penis. i quickly pulled out as fast as possible. I believe this is known as dipping, it is a very brief dipped. Can i know my HIV risk?

[jk626]

Understood. I know what to do next time. Thanks for the advise.

So, i will go for a test at 6 weeks and another one at 12 weeks for conclusive result and expecting to have negative result. Am i right?

[RainLover71]

You were already told when you could obtain a conclusive result and next time you go for a massage make sure you discuss whats going to happen or something like this might occur again.

[Teak]

Dipping is pentetrative sex.

[jk626]

This is what i've found from Dr. HHH MD reply
- Title: exposure in hot tub?
I don't know where you heard that "dipping" -- brief/superficial penile-vaginal (or penile anal) penetration -- is high risk.  There are no data on it, but surely it is a lot lower risk for HIV than more complete vaginal sex.  And even for that, i.e. typical unpotected sex for several minutes, the average HIV transmission risk, if the female partner has HIV, is once for every 2,000 events.  That's why a) many spouses of HIV infected people remain free of HIV for many years and b) almost all heterosexual HIV infections occur in the regular partners of infected people.  One-off exposures almost never result in HIV transmission.  Why?  HIV is pretty hard to transmit; it takes lots of virus that has to get into a place where there is prolonged contact with susceptible cells.  Superficial and brief exposures don't make the grade.
Link: http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/exposure-in-hot-tub/show/1638596

Fourth, even if there was penetration, and even if she had HIV, the transmission risk from under a 1 second exposure is miniscule, probably zero or close to it.  Finally, your vague symptoms don't sound like any STD and certainly cannot be due to a new HIV infection.

Title: Condom broke on "dipping" in Thailand
So from a risk assessment or medical perspective, there is no need for testing for HIV or other STDs.  Of course you can always do that if this reassurance (and hers) doesn't completely settle your nervousness about it.  But if I were in your situation, knowing what I know, I wouldn't be concerned and would not feel a need to be tested.
Link: http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/Condom-broke-on-dipping-in-Thailand/show/1188704

Do these 2 incidents same as mine? the amount for doctor advise is far too expensive in my home country which i could use for 2 weeks. So, i have no money for their advise.

Please help me!

[jk626]

No. I have no intention to have sex but my concern was the dipping incident. She did that without my permission and i was shocked. All in all, just the dip incident happened, nothing like having full penetrative and prolonged sex.

So, should i go for HIV test?

[Teak]

If you didn't have unprotected penetrative vaginal sex then you never had an exposure.

[jk626]

I am in the high anxiety and checking for comment almost every 5 minutes.

Any HIV experts could help me on this matter? Joggen, Vance, Teak, LIZZIE LOU....

[jk626]

Can i know what was the difference with below link as we have a similar exposure? because the incident only happened in a split second.

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/Frottage-or-possible-dipping/show/1787294
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/frottage-and-possible-dippingfor-a-split-second-/show/1237676

Thanks for the reply.

[RainLover71]

You had an extremely low risk--test at 6 weeks and then 12 weeks for a final conclusive result.