On 14 August I had unprotected 3 minute anal sex with gay man. I was active and he was pasive. I took 4 hiv duo ag-at tests: 3, 17, 28, 35 days after exposure.All the tests were negative. My partner took oral fluid test at 8 days after exposure and hiv duo test at 24 day after exposure.Both tests were negative.I can t stop thiniking about it, searching internet, I can t eat. I have a girl and i did n have sex with her from 14. August because I am so scared of having HIV. The main problem is 3 months window period. I can t stop thinking is there any chance that i would be positive. Now is 7 week and i told my self that I will not go testing any more but times goes on and on and I am not sure anymore in anything. In many forums they say that duo test is accurate at 28 days 99.89 % ( I did it exactly on 28th and 35th day) and that there were no people who tested at 28 th negative become later positive. I am very scared and don t know any more who to believe....????? So my questions are:
1. If he is negative can I be positive?
2.Do I need more testing?
3. Is my HIV DUO test accurate at 28 and 35 days?
4.Can I have sex with my girl or I have to wait 3 months, test again and then be sure?
I know that I need a psyhological help but this anxity will destroy me...I can t stop thiniking about it....please help!!! For the first time in my life I don t know what to do and what is corect and which doctor can I trust!!!