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HIV Expossure bisexual man

Hey guys I am trying to straight my life in very concerned about my sexual behavior. I a bisexual male and I always follow strictly the recommendations from Teak, others and the doctors. I been exposed to different massage parlors male and female mostly massage, oral sex (receptive) without ejaculation one time receptive anal with double protection (condoms) one time I was incentive using a condom. Condoms never broke. Also I been rimmed a couple of times by one of these male masagist. I been very consistent with these preventive measures I always ask about HIV status. I been struggling with my bisexuality for while and I want to stop or control this. I have a family to take care and I don’t know why I been doing this. Anxiety is killing. I feel confident about the oral sex based on your post and doctor comments. The information that you provide are extremely useful even many doctors outside they have misconception about HIV transmission and prevention. I have one exposure two months ago with a female CSW in US in FL (which I been several times with her cero risk exposure use condoms) but the last time that I was with her (two months ago) I had some erection problems and she pulled the condom and we unprotected sex. This is killing me I should never do that. She told me that she is clean by sure but now after this all this kind of thinks is coming into my mind. Finally I decided to get tested with Home Access HIV test I just send my results (this is a horrible period of waiting time). I really want to straight up my life. Thank you and appreciate your coments
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seek therapy & get that test done.
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If you have a wife/girlfriend at home plus a family, that should be enough incentive to make you stop this risky behavior.  I'm not trying to make you feel bad but like the other person stated you are putting others at risk.  You need to get tested immediately and if you want conclusive resluts now, take the HIV DNA PCR or P24 Antigen test.  It is costly but so is losing your family.
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You right i feel terrible  I am suffering so much with this I am stupid. I really need help!
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If your inprotected exposure was 2 months ago then you should have tested.You need to put your family first & stop this reckless behaviour--how would you feel if you infected your GF/wife.Also Bi-sexuals and IV drug users were the groups that spread HIV to the hetrosexual community to begin with.
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