Well, my story is about aids.
When i was with my Xgf, we were both virgins. She told me that she never had sex. i told her neither me. We did it the first time with condom. It was a bit hard to insert my penis, but when i did, she bled a lot. I didn't ejaculate, it was hurting her, she wanted to stop.
The second time, also with condom, we did it, she bled didn't ejaculate, she was hurt.
The third time she came to my house, and i was taking her downstairs to her dad, we did something on the stairs, we had sex, a 1-2 minute thing, but without protection. I was telling myself that she's virgin she don't have anything.
So then t night a told my friend, He told me that I'm crazy, that she may have something, i told him she's virgin, then he told me maybe she was born with it, i told him, if she was born with it, and didn't know she wouldn't be here, she would be dead, (we are both 17, me and my Xgf)
Then he told me that, if she was lying to you. He convinced me.
Arrived at home, i began researches and all.
Then stayed with this fear for 66 days, then had an oraquick test (the home one), but i didn't swab it, just put it on my gums, then i called the cdc, he told me that i should take another one. But the C line was here. So it was working and i was negative. I took another one, and it was also negative, i did it right, the second one.
But then i read that it still not accurate until 3 months, so 12 weeks, and i was just at 9,5 weeks. so keep stressing.
Then, i talked to her, (on the phone) explained her when we talked back, 10 weeks after the exposure, my fear during those 10 weeks. I asked her if she had something, if she was born with AIDS. She told me that i was stressing for nothing, that she wasn't born with it.
But i still don't believe her.
Yesterday i met her, and asked he never had something with another guy, or if she was born with aids she said no. i asked her to sear, she told me that her parents educated her not to swear.
Because i'm afraid, i'm gonna make a test tomorrow, in a lab.
But i have some questions.
1) my 9,5 weeks oraquick home swab is it accrue, in which percentage is it ?
2) do the lab require my age ? because i'm 17 and don't want my parents to know.
3) can i get infected by something in the lab by the needle ? Because i'm really afraid, I'm in Africa, so here the rates are high.
4) will my 87 day test be accure ?
5)if i make to, after 2 hours of running, will it affect my results ?
6) if i do it before 2 hours of running, will it affect me ?
7) the results will take 24 hours to get it, and about 33$. and when i asked here, what is the post exposure delay, for the window period (on the phone), she told me 15 days (the knowledge that she have X_X' ) . will it be a 3rd or 4 generation test, or they still use the 1st and 2nd generations in some countries ?
please help me !!
THANK YOU !!