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HIV from french kissing and handjob (musturbation)
im a Femal 28 years old i had blood test for stds on 20th May the HIV and hepatitis come back negative but the hsv1 and hsv2 come back positive. i dated a guy that he is in the Army, we start hanging out, he start kissing me (french kisses) while i have some sores in my tongue i tried to stop him but he won't, sometime he rub my vagina with his fingers til i cum but never put his fingers inside the vagina,( musturbation) one day i had sex with him but both of us were wearing underwear he cum but i didn't touch his sperm ( i was wearing underwear with short and he was wearing underwear like short). on Friday 13th June 2015 i had some french kisses with him, i didnt meet him saturday but when i woke up on sunday morning i found my lymph glands on my neck was painful and sore throat with White spots on the throat and in the back and Pain with difficulty swallowing. i went to my doctor she checked my throat and she gave me Acyclovir 400 mg i came back home and i felt chills and after chills its turn to fever, Fatigue, body aches for 4 days the last 2 day i started sweating a lot from my neck till my t-shirt get very wet i remember that i got sweating in the early morning more than night i dont remember that i got sweat at night . i jumped in the shower while im showering i saw 2 small blisters close to my Vagina. after that a lot of sweating i felt better and the sores on my throat got to heal. now i realize that i'm losing my weight on ( August) i was 138 Pounds now i am 132 Pounds, im very scared and i dont eat to much, very depressed and stressful, im very worried about getting HIV. the guy i was with his HIV status unknown. am i at risk of getting HIV? is this HIV symptoms i mentioned above? do i need to take another HIV test or other STDS test? Am i exposed to HIV? please answer me i cant sleep of this cuz im very scared. may God bless you.
you are not exposed for HIV. but more than 20 different viruses and bacteria can pass from one partner to another during sex. many of these germs, including the bacterium that causes chlamydia and the virus that causes herpes, live on the surface of the genitals. these infections can spread during genital contact. you can take a test for stds. but regarding HIV, there was no risk.
so what that symptoms i had? its like same HIV symptoms.
what about chlamydia can you get it by touching down there and french kissing? i already have Herpes type 1 and 2 and im very afraid to get HIV by kissing and musturbation. just to know i never slept with him , it was just french kissing and musturbation, also i have bleeding gum when i brush my teeth but i dont think my gum was bleeding while im kissing him. too much on my mind i cant really sleep and very depressed
what about chlamydia can you get it by touching down there and french kissing? i already have Herpes type 1 and 2 and im very afraid to get HIV by kissing and musturbation. just to know i never slept with him , it was just french kissing and musturbation, also i have bleeding gum when i brush my teeth but i dont think my gum was bleeding while im kissing him. too much on my mind i cant really sleep and very depressed
Hi i disagree with cerdo you have no risk of getting any std from kissing or giving him a handjob. You have nothing to worry about.
those symptoms are from a germ you got from him which can also cause HIV like symptoms. But you dont have to worry, you are not infected with HIV!
what do u mean about those symptoms are from a germ you got from him which can also cause HIV like symptoms.??? do u mean it is HIV symptoms or what? or im already got HIV?
what do u mean about those symptoms are from a germ you got from him which can also cause HIV like symptoms.??? do u mean it is HIV symptoms or what? or im already got HIV?
when you for example have the flu, you get swollen lymph, head ache, sore throat, etc. HIV have also simillar symptoms. so, its not because someone has those symptoms, it means they have HIV. you cannot judge just from the symptoms. there was no penetration because you were clothed during sex right? so, there was no penetration and HIV infection is possible during unprotected penetration. you dont have HIV.
yes i was wearing thong and his short (like boxer) also he were wearing underwear when he cum i didnt touch his semen.
is this symptoms could be from Herpes?
i read that someone infected to herpes his first herpes symptoms is fever, chills, swollen lymph, sores in his mouth and sometime in the throat. i didnt see that they r mentioned sweating. thats why im freaking out.
are you a doctor?
is this symptoms could be from Herpes?
i read that someone infected to herpes his first herpes symptoms is fever, chills, swollen lymph, sores in his mouth and sometime in the throat. i didnt see that they r mentioned sweating. thats why im freaking out.
are you a doctor?
maya you need to try and get your anxiety under control .not sleeping and anxiety can cause you to have symptoms from anxiety .it can also prolong any symptoms from whatever it is that is causing your issue.try to get plenty of rest and eat healthy.hiv is not your issue.give yourself some time see if your symptoms subside but work with your dr.what hiv is not transmitted through the type of contact you had.be well.
I am trying to control it. Anxiety is really drive me crazy, sometime i forgot all this but once i go to bed i start thinking about it again, also the thing that makes me feel that way when i asked him about deployement and he told me thats his Unit in the US Army is non-deplyable. i know that in the Army there is NO non-deployement Units and also i know that in the military ppl that they r not deployable is the one with Health condition problems and ppl with HIV positive. He stopped talking to me for no reason and when i asked him why he said he dont know what to tell me and he is in kinda of a bad place and he wants to be left alone. . he is kinda of mysterious person . we start talking again he and he asked to see me again, i dont really know what to tell him. do i told him what happened to me and tell him about all this symptoms i had? ihope u understand my situation. and thank u very much for all the answers i really appreciate.
hi James plz can u tell me about this symptoms i had, also yesterday i felt another 2 lymph glands one in the left behind my neck and very solid and not moving which very down my hair and the other one in the right of my neck. for for clarification the first symptoms i had its disapeared but still have some sore on my tongue especialy when i woke in the morning i found many white Lines on it from what im having this symptoms? plz can answer me and thank u very much again.
I received your unclear message. I searched for you and found this thread. I do not know much about STD. So I cannot advice you on your symptoms. All the above posters have answered your question. If there is a problem face it boldly. If needed go to a doctor and undergo treatment. Stop all sexual activity for the time being. For relaxation do abdominal breathing. Google to know what is abdominal breathing.Do it for 10 minutes twice a day. This will calm you.When you are calm, you can solve your problem.Deep, slow and even breathing will help you to go through this problem.There are treatment available for almost all disease.If you face them bravely, you will be out of wood and be free from any disease.Use this incident as a learning process. Wish you best of luck.
another question plz
they said Some people get flu-like symptoms such as fever, headache, sore muscles and joints, stomach ache, swollen lymph glands, or a skin rash four to six weeks after exposure to the virus.
i see that i had the same symptoms after 4 weeks, thats why im asking u, its really driving me crazy now
they said Some people get flu-like symptoms such as fever, headache, sore muscles and joints, stomach ache, swollen lymph glands, or a skin rash four to six weeks after exposure to the virus.
i see that i had the same symptoms after 4 weeks, thats why im asking u, its really driving me crazy now
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