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HIV question - infection

I had sex with condom all good but fingered her deep inside while i had small cuts ones in my finger.
And vaginal rubbing with my penis it is safe?
It has been 30 days i have sore throat and Swollen Lymph Nodes in right side and mouth ulcer in same time.
Can i get infected with HIV like this that i wrote above?
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It is a small Lymph Nodes i read it can cause the Sore throat small infection but what about my hiv question what test do i need to take to get tested for hiv?
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You had no risk so are safe and do not need to test.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make your encounter a risk for HIV. No one got HIV from the situation you encountered in 40 years and likely no one will in the next 40 of your life, so there in no more likelihood of HIV transmission happening than of you getting hit by a meteor as you read this.
Yes but I had cuts when i fingered her? it was inside no external it was internal deep inside there is vagial fluids that contain hiv? cause i know in air HIV is dead as soon as its expose to it.
Which of the ONLY 3 do you think was your risk? Otherwise you are making up your own science, because HIV is a fragile virus and has only 3 possible ways to infect which has been proven over 40 years of scientific studies.
Both people would have to have very deep gaping wounds like in a car accident with the virus thrust deeply into each person's gaping wound to even be a theoretical risk - if both of you had that then neither would allow the other person to touch them because of the pain.
@AnxiousNoMore Thank you a lot.
You made it clear as crystal no more anxious,
Thank you again
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