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HIV risk, threesome with 2 sex workers

Hi everyone, to make this very brief, I had an encounter with 2 young sex workers 4 days ago, I had a few drinks but I wasnt drunk, I was pretty aware of what was happening and how was happening, I agreed to have sex with one first and then the other one, different condoms, they were friends but didnt want to make an actual threesome, oral and vaginal intercourse was protected and condoms never slipped or broke, here are my concerns, they both took off the condoms, they were touching their vaginas before that and I cant remember if some vaginal fluids touched my penis when they were taking the condoms off, also I touched them with my fingers, and then after the intercourse was over I touched my penis without washing my hands, I know the odds are in my favor but still I have doubts with vaginal fluids, they were very stressed out, maybe it was too late and they were tired but something that eased my mind a little is that everytime that they had to put or take off the condom they seemed they were dealing with the sickest man on earth, they were insanely carefull, I was getting mad in a moment when that happened but, hey, Im in their same shoes now, so, yeah, I was wondering what are my chances of contracting HIV or another STD in that specific situation, thank you very much.  
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This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore  testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis. Only the head needs to be covered, so if that happened it is  protected and there is zero risk
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis. Only the head needs to be covered, so if that happened it is protected and there is zero risk.
3. sharing hollow needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. This HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk. Because of all the research statistics, doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either.
If you didn't have one of the 3 then you are just worrying about your own hiv theory - which is unrealistic for you to think that can become reality - so you should move on back to your happy life instead.
hiv isn't a worm that burrows in air deep into your skin and bloodstream and in fact it is effectively deal before they touch it.
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Thank you very much sir, everything is clear now, I will move on from this irrelevant concerns, you are awesome, God bless you.
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