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HIV risk from oral and rubbing
Ok i had an encounter with this female my penis was soft while I rubbed it on the open of vagina but I never went in and she gave me oral but I was still soft . Later I was told she possibly had an Disease I started stressing about it . Then I started having symptoms like a little sting after I pee , had the runs , joint pains and a swollen right ball but it’s down now , I have the Oral thresh that keeps coming back after I brush it I also lost a couple pounds I’m trying too see if I needa get tested even tho I got tested for the other stuff and it came back negative I’m just trying to see if I need to get tested for hiv ?
Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air (vagina, maybe fluids, etc. ). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are only 3 ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
Here is the std forum for questions about the sting. https://www.medhelp.org/forums/STDs---STIs/show/98
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
Here is the std forum for questions about the sting. https://www.medhelp.org/forums/STDs---STIs/show/98
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So basically I shouldn’t worry because I never had sex with her ? Cause i was so stressed out I looked up the symptoms for that and that’s why I got stressed out cause most of the symptoms I have / had . I just had to ask cause I need to be sure that my life no in danger cause of something I did but thanks for replying back to me it was much needed
hiv docs can't diagnose from symptoms so no one here pays attention to them - and you shouldn't try to diagnose either.
Thanks
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