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Hello, I just joined you.  I wanted to ask about an incident that happened to me.  I'm sorry for my bad english.  I had sex with an escort.  The date is August 29.  Only unprotected genitalia and apposition.  I don't know how long this took.  A kiss took place.  I suspect my partner may have HIV.  Now I want to ask you with confidence.  Does time matter?  Absolutely no penetration.  After 3 days of contact, I checked my penis hard and the pain started.  No discharge, no burning in urine.  An uncomfortable feeling towards the tip and foreskin only.  When I got up to the toilet in the morning, there was no pain, then it came back.  Is this pain psychological or did it occur after a strict control?  I have a wife, I feel guilty.  Is testing necessary for such contact?  Should I have unprotected sex with my partner?  Even if this genital frottage, rubbing and insertion is for a long time, is it possible to transmit HIV by contact of vaginal fluid with my penis and urethra?  Now penile pain continues.  It's been 8 days today and I have left neck pain.  No other symptoms.  I am very stressed and anxious.  I was sure it was just frottage and apposition the night of sexual contact.  But.  Now I'm thinking about it again and I don't know if it's short dipping.  I was drunk.  Would I know if it was dipping?  Is this just anxiety?  Could penile pain 3 days later and left neck pain 8 days later be HIV symptoms?  I will test HIV RNA and VIDAS HIV DUO ULTRA on day 14 just to be sure.  How reliable is it?  Finally, if there was a fungus in my genital area before sexual contact, would this pose a risk?
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Hello, I had a sexual contact.  I know it's risk free, but I have anxiety.  So I took a test to get rid of my anxiety.  Day 15 HIV RNA and HIV DUO ULTRA.  Both are negative.  Can you tell me how reliable it is?  Do I need to repeat in 28 or 45 days?
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You didn't have a risk for HIV.  This is not an anxiety support group.  
Any test you take will be reliable, and negative, since you never had a risk for HIV.
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" this is the only thing that matters in your entire post - ("Absolutely no penetration. ") - because the only sex risks for hiv are unprotected penetration with a penis"
It is unlikely that the escort would allow you to penetrate since that could infect her.

hiv docs can't diagnose from symptoms so no one here pays attention to them - so you shouldn't waste your time studying them either.
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What is "apposition."? Do you mean just touching?
Anyway, this is the only thing that matters in your entire post - ("Absolutely no penetration. ") - because the only sex risks for hiv are unprotected penetration with a penis, which you were far from doing. It will be abnormal to continue testing now that you know you can't have hiv. You can do what you did anytime and be safe.
The fact that your pain goes away for prolonged times suggests it can be in your imagination from fear so forget about it and see if it goes away.
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My penis was rubbing between your vagina. I was a little drunk, but I was sure it was just friction on the day of sexual contact. Now I'm just not sure if it could be a 1-2 second dipping. Is this a concern? I think I would know if there was a small dipping? I was wondering if penile pain and left neck pain could be HIV symptoms?
sorry for my bad english
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