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Young and scared

Hi guys, I'm scared and alone 2 1/2 months ago my friends hooked me up with a girl it was my first time doing anything sexual. I was out her house we were both getting naked getting reay for sex but I was still scared so I told her to keep her panties on I didn't really know what to do so I just like rubbed/grounded my penis on her vagina for a bit and kiss her a lot then I left. Now it's been 2 months in hell I've been Scared of everything and keep thinking my live could be over because of HIV, I'm having symtpoms fatigued, headaches, sinuses, dizziness, temple pain, migraines. I ask you experts for advice what should i do I really your advice please
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Thank you sir I know you probably wouldn't recommend it but I'm going to get a test to finish this once and for all and move on thank you for your answers
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No ARS does not last 2-3 months. If one has ARS it lasts 1-2 weeks.
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Thank u sir last question before I'm done with this thread if I had HIV would ars symtpoms last 2-3 months
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You never had an exposure so if you are having problems accepting it I suggest you seek some professional help.
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Teak sir what would you recommend for me to do
HIV is taking over my life, I'm scared of doing so many things because I may get infected or infect someone, I just want to first about it and move on with my lfe
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HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug abusers
Mother to child
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It doesn't matter what color she is you had no risk now if you can't get your head around that then seek some therapy for your irational fears.
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Ate you 100% sure what I did Is a 0% chance of transmission and do experts agree HIV only from sex?? I'm not being racist but she is black age 15 I'm 16 we live in Calgary
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Ask your doctor because they are not ARS symptoms.
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But these symptoms scare me sir I had a ct scan done as well it shows everything normal so I don't know what else could cause these other than hiv
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Deep kissing is not a risk and you rubbed her vagina with your penis you didn't penetrate it.You need to educate yourself about the modes of HIV transmission.
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But sir I've read that deep kissing is risk and when I rub penis on her panties she was wet so her juice come in contact with skin so risk
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You are not listening--there was no unprotected penetration of her vagina so there was no risk of HIV transmission.
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Really sir? I've had these synptoms since that horrible day everyday i hafe these pains, feels like my life is ruined I didn't even ejaculate and was first time with girl
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There was no penetration therefore there was no risk.Stop worrying.All those symptoms you are having are related to stress nothing to do with ARS.
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