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HIV with this activity - Deep cut finger with band aid , she touched my pennis for a minute
Hi Doctor,
1. Recently i called a sex worked from backpage. When she came she tried to put hand in my pants and i said no. But she said she want to see , so i opened my pant and showed her the pennis, i am uncircumsized. When i showed the pennis she touched with her hand, i think it can be innerskin or outserskin of pennis. Then we she sat on my pennis ( my clothes were on, i was wearing an underwear and night trouser and a tshirt ). she sat on my pennis and did rubbed , did like she was doing sex by sitting on top and doing sex. i didnt feel comfortable and she came close to me , she is totally naked.. i tocuhed her breasts and she touched my chest with her hands. i started rubbing my pennis against her body and ejaculated. after 15 mins she left i took bath. All the times i was on clothes.
The worry which i had is when she was leaving i saw that she has some band aid on her hand and i asked her, she said had a very deep cut ( not sure what she said it is 4 hrs before or 4 days before, but she toled me it was very deep cut and the blood was coming continously and she kept a band aid). She touched with the same hand for that moment when she touched my pennis inner skin ( not more than 1 min ), if there is a drop of blood from her band aid ( blood can come from band aid since she has a deep cut and she said it was bleeding before she came ) on my pennis and with all this rubbings if it goes inside my pennis openning.( all times i was on clothes ).
this is putting me more worried and scared to death. is there a risk with this situation,
2. Till before this i used to go massage parlors and once had hand job during table shower and slept naked on bed during massage. Apart from this remaining times,when i went to massage parlor i was in underwear and used to rub my chest against her chest and rub her breats with my hands and starting myself masturbating with my hands.
My last hiv test was after 3.4 weeks of table shower massage where she did handjob. after that had massage parlor kind of activities like 5.
The recent incident point # 1 is putting me a lot of worried and i called her and told her... she said you didnt do sex and dont worry... i said you have some cut... i asked her with which hand you toched me . she said she cant remember as i asked after one week.. also i asked her can you get tested for my peace of mind. she said she wont get tested now, but said she gets tested every 3 months.. i dont know how to trust her... as for her family background she had two kids with no husband and got this kids with two different fathers.
Please reply to this as iam totally freaked out and worried, as me and wife are planning for second baby and i have 5 yrs son. i dont want to tell my wife this one , since i told her massage one and got tested one month and promised her i wont do this activities..
1. Recently i called a sex worked from backpage. When she came she tried to put hand in my pants and i said no. But she said she want to see , so i opened my pant and showed her the pennis, i am uncircumsized. When i showed the pennis she touched with her hand, i think it can be innerskin or outserskin of pennis. Then we she sat on my pennis ( my clothes were on, i was wearing an underwear and night trouser and a tshirt ). she sat on my pennis and did rubbed , did like she was doing sex by sitting on top and doing sex. i didnt feel comfortable and she came close to me , she is totally naked.. i tocuhed her breasts and she touched my chest with her hands. i started rubbing my pennis against her body and ejaculated. after 15 mins she left i took bath. All the times i was on clothes.
The worry which i had is when she was leaving i saw that she has some band aid on her hand and i asked her, she said had a very deep cut ( not sure what she said it is 4 hrs before or 4 days before, but she toled me it was very deep cut and the blood was coming continously and she kept a band aid). She touched with the same hand for that moment when she touched my pennis inner skin ( not more than 1 min ), if there is a drop of blood from her band aid ( blood can come from band aid since she has a deep cut and she said it was bleeding before she came ) on my pennis and with all this rubbings if it goes inside my pennis openning.( all times i was on clothes ).
this is putting me more worried and scared to death. is there a risk with this situation,
2. Till before this i used to go massage parlors and once had hand job during table shower and slept naked on bed during massage. Apart from this remaining times,when i went to massage parlor i was in underwear and used to rub my chest against her chest and rub her breats with my hands and starting myself masturbating with my hands.
My last hiv test was after 3.4 weeks of table shower massage where she did handjob. after that had massage parlor kind of activities like 5.
The recent incident point # 1 is putting me a lot of worried and i called her and told her... she said you didnt do sex and dont worry... i said you have some cut... i asked her with which hand you toched me . she said she cant remember as i asked after one week.. also i asked her can you get tested for my peace of mind. she said she wont get tested now, but said she gets tested every 3 months.. i dont know how to trust her... as for her family background she had two kids with no husband and got this kids with two different fathers.
Please reply to this as iam totally freaked out and worried, as me and wife are planning for second baby and i have 5 yrs son. i dont want to tell my wife this one , since i told her massage one and got tested one month and promised her i wont do this activities..
Hi,
Just now i called her again and discussed with her, when was the cut happened, this is the fourth time i called her to check with her.
1. Second day when she came she removed her band aid and it was shiny red on her finger...we did only hugging, she was naked , i had my clothes on.. she rubbed my pennis with her hands.. but i was on jeans... she tried to use her left hand since i know cut and she donthave band aid i asked her to use right hand.. i may touch her left hand.. but i cleaned my hands later... if i kept my fingers in nose before cleaning .... is there any risk..
2.Third time when she came i just rubbed my pennis on her back with both of them in clothes to get ejaculation and liquid in my pants.
3. Fourth time today i did nothing and i asked her.. she said she dont remember when the cut was but said could be 4 hours before or one day before. when the cut happened she said it was bleeding and she keep on replacing band aids at that time itself because it was bleeding. if it was 4 hours before then the band aid she had could not leak the blood right, if it was 1 day before, there could not be that much bleeding right.. she said she remeber she had a glue to stop the blood.
in day 2 when she came if i would have touched her left hand with my hands and if i keep in my nose any issue, not immediately but after some time.. i might have rubbed my hands against her body or clothes after sometime?. the wound was dry as she removed the band aid..
Also can you see my point # 3 regarding when the cut was and any exposure with the time of cut..
Just now i called her again and discussed with her, when was the cut happened, this is the fourth time i called her to check with her.
1. Second day when she came she removed her band aid and it was shiny red on her finger...we did only hugging, she was naked , i had my clothes on.. she rubbed my pennis with her hands.. but i was on jeans... she tried to use her left hand since i know cut and she donthave band aid i asked her to use right hand.. i may touch her left hand.. but i cleaned my hands later... if i kept my fingers in nose before cleaning .... is there any risk..
2.Third time when she came i just rubbed my pennis on her back with both of them in clothes to get ejaculation and liquid in my pants.
3. Fourth time today i did nothing and i asked her.. she said she dont remember when the cut was but said could be 4 hours before or one day before. when the cut happened she said it was bleeding and she keep on replacing band aids at that time itself because it was bleeding. if it was 4 hours before then the band aid she had could not leak the blood right, if it was 1 day before, there could not be that much bleeding right.. she said she remeber she had a glue to stop the blood.
in day 2 when she came if i would have touched her left hand with my hands and if i keep in my nose any issue, not immediately but after some time.. i might have rubbed my hands against her body or clothes after sometime?. the wound was dry as she removed the band aid..
Also can you see my point # 3 regarding when the cut was and any exposure with the time of cut..
The cut on her finger means nothing and if there was no unprotected penetration then there was no risk.I think the guilt is eating away at you but you can start fresh and move on from this because you're safe and your wife is not at risk from you at all.Go ahead and have another baby and learn from your mistake.
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