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Had Protected Sex, But concerned with the vaginal fluid

Dear All,
Yesterday I had a protected sex with a prostitute,  i have below queries , request you to kindly guide.

1. Rubbed Her vagina  by finger, to turn her on, & Then went to washroom & cleaned my Hands with Normal clean water.(No soap ,No other toiletries only water)-   Will Hiv survive on my hand in that case?  I had touched my penis after that. .

2. Had Vaginal sex with her  twice with condom on , One lasted for 2 & other for about 5-6 minutes.. Ejaculated  & checked the condom as well and  there was No tear , condom was intact in both cases.- But before  let me wear the condom , she rubbed the same on the surface of our bed sheet  as the  inner part of condom was little oily  & condom surface of condom was slippery - So what are the chances ,If any HIV is there on our bed sheet & surviving there when condom was rubbed on bed sheet.(Though bed sheet was visibly clean)

3.There was an instance when i was tired &  was laying with the condom on after 2-3 minutes of vaginal sex, Probably some of her vaginal fluid might be on the surface of condom , as i was not erected , the condom was touching my groin , pelvic hair  ,testicle., -What are the chances of HIV surviving on those body parts , i laid in that situation for 4-5 minutes , & while leaving i only cleaned my Penis with clean water & did not wash my other body parts near penis where the condom with vaginal fluid touched. .,My  uncovered penis had touched  those uncleaned body parts later on.

Simple question- Looking at all above instances, do you think i should be worried for any test ?  Condoms were intact , & did not tear. Can HIV Survive on the Surface of bedsheet ? Can Hiv survive on body parts where vaginal fluid touched & penis touched those parts ?
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You have a few threads about HIV so maybe you should stop going to csw since you come here afterwards worried. Lots of your threads were closed so I imagine you know all there is to know about HIV. Only sex risk is unprotected anal or vaginal which you were a long way from doing, so it is time to move on from HIV instead of worrying that you thought of something new.
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This answers all your questions and if you think of any others, then you just reread about the 3.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. Doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk.
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