That's good! I think you had some anxiety............
Hi Rubywitch,
Thank you for your detailed answer. I did insert the condom in the right way. I had itching only for two days. After that it is all normal like before. More over I don't have any symptoms like body pains or any other fever.
You had both protected oral sex and protected vaginal sex. No risk for either HIV or STD's.
If the condom had broken, you would absolutely know it. When they fail, they fail catastrophically. There is nothing left but a few shreds and the ring at the base of your penis.
If you were able to see sperm INSIDE the condom when you removed it, that proves that it did not break.
The fluid you saw on the outside was most likely vaginal fluid and/or any lubrication you may have used.
You said you felt the condom was "damaged" in some way. It's possible you put the condom on inside out, which can happen if you roll it onto the shaft the wrong way. (There IS a right and a wrong way!) Some condoms have a light coating of powder to help ease it over the penis. If you DID put it on wrong, perhaps you are having a reaction to the powder?
Let me assure you here that even if you did put the condom on wrong, as long as the head of your penis was covered, you had no risk for HIV or STD's.
You may also be allergic to latex, which the majority of condoms are made of. Perhaps the next time you have sex, you could try a condom made from polyurethane or polyisoprene.
If the itching does not go away in a week, please see your doctor.
RW