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Handjob/breast job risk?

Hi Guys, last year I engaged at a massage parlor a Titjob in October and 3 handjobs during the period of November and December.
The titjob was unprotected but the handjobs she wore gloves and the last one I wore a condom.
During the last handjob I ejaculated prematurely as I was struggling to get the condom on before she touched me and it caused me some pain, she went on to touch me for around 10 seconds after.
At no point did my penis in all episodes come into contact with any of her private parts.
The next couple of days I went on to get some kind of Prostatis and Epydidimus.
My urine tests came back clear and my blood results normal too.
Reading all the comments on here I know everyone says it’s no risk, but nevertheless I have tested:

4th Gen lab 27 days negative
4th Gen rapid 31 days negative
4th Gen  rapid 9 weeks negative
Biosure 83 days rapid 2nd Gen negative
Biosure 84 days rapid 2nd Gen negative
Biosure 89 days rapid 2nd Gen negative
4th Gen Rapid 90 days negative
4th Gen finger prick 90 days serum lab test negative
4th Gen rapid 94 days negative
5th Gen Lab test 98 days negative
Biosure rapid finger prick 108 days negative
4th Gen lab test at 112 days negative.
5th Gen lab test 115 days negative.
4th Gen lab test at 140 days Negative

For the Prostatis I was put on Ciproflaxcin and Tamosulin the muscle relaxant, would these effect my tests?
After I have finished long courses of antibiotics nearly 3 months worth I have got Oral thrush and Acid reflux.
Terrible headaches and a swollen lymph node appeared under my armpit for two weeks.
I’ve been literally unwell for 3 months non stop, I just dunno what to think and have convinced myself it’s HIV.
I hear about people serconverting after 3 months and presume I’m one of those.
I really don’t know where to turn and I’m petrified what I have done, I’ve never slept with anyone apart from my wife and it was a stupid mistake to engage in these handjobs.
Should I do more testing?
Please can somebody give me some advice.
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"Reading all the comments on here I know everyone says it’s no risk."  
Seek therapy, because you read lots of comments here so you know everything you need to know, yet won't believe it because your anxiety is a bit of a mental health issue. This is an hiv prevention forum and you don't have hiv. No one can help you here with your mental health issue.
Also talk to your doctor to see if he can help you.
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It is abnormal to keep testing for the same disease. Seek therapy instead.
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Thank you, I understand I have great anxiety and stress but what about all the physical symptoms?
Im a logical guy, these can’t be manifestations from my brain caused by stress.
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Also could Antibiotics or other medication I took for Prostatis mask Hiv results?
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"Reading all the comments on here I know everyone says it’s no risk." "I'm a logical guy"
Read the above that you wrote and move on instead of wasting your time asking questions that are based on illogical "What if the impossible happened, then I could be infected, then I could have symptoms scenarios."
Taking multiple tests for the same disease that you were not exposed to is far from logical however and not believing any of the results is illogical too since you are not a scientist and are just relying on gut instinct, so consider a discussion with a mental health therapist and your doctor so you can get past "what if the impossible happened?" ideas.
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To be clearer above I should have said this; "What if the impossible happened, then I could be infected with hiv, then I could have hiv symptoms instead of just symptoms from other causes" scenarios.
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Thank you, I’m truly grateful for your response, I’m speaking to a therapist, it’s been the most difficult moment of my life when I have contemplated all sorts of dark scenarios that I would do to myself if I actually have it.
Thank you again.
Well you don't have any chance of having it, so I hope you escape from those dark scenarios. Covid can be anywhere, invisible and infecting the unlucky and unwary, however hiv is too fragile to be able to infect from any sexual encounters like you had because that infection requires an unprotected PENETRATING penis with vaginal or anal sex.
Thank you again, you have been more than gracious with your time and very kind in answering my concerns.
I’m trying desperately to move on, but with physical symptoms it’s difficult
Thank you again for your kindness
Just regarding testing
Have you ever seen anyone with my results turn positive after 5 months and do antibiotics or alpha blockers(muscle relaxant)
Effect the 4th Gen or 5th Gen test.
Is there any other STD that can give me these symptoms?
My stomach problems,reflux and thrush just doesn’t want to clear up and my neck is so swollen.
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