Wow that is why massage parlors get a bad name. I am a massage therapist and if you would have came to my spa you would have got a nice real relaxing massage and not four play. I would have been freaked out too being touched without wanting to be touched in certain places. The problem with places like that is they think all men come in for one thing and never think HEY maybe they really want a MASSAGE!
Thanks for the reassuring reply. I suffer a lot from anxiety and was getting the massage to try and help my anxiety. turns out it made it worse. I'm going to get tested in 8 weeks anyway but I sure appreciate the encouraging comment to get me by in the mean time...
No you cannot contract HIV in that manner.