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Having oral sex with hiv postive

Around 10/25, I having received oral sex by hiv positive. After i got home, i see a small skin peel in my penis. What is my risk? Should i go get test? and when should i get test? I really scar and i not going to do it again.
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What is my risk? NO RISK
Should i go get test? NO
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The small skin peel mean i have see a little blood on it. The only symptom i have is fever that last about couple of day, and diaharra last couple of day after 4 week of my possible exposure. I really scar. Do i still need to take the test or just move on with my life and forget about this mistake.
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just move on with my life and forget about this mistake.
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Thank for your help. I not going to make mistake again because i have a wonderful fiancee that i get marry soon. I hope i can move on from this mistake.
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You will be fine! in regards to HIV
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Thank. How about other std? what is my risk?
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STD questions need to be asked in the STD forum.
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Get full STD panel after a few weeks. All other STD questions need to be asked in the STD forum
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I don't have sex with my fiancee yet, does that mean after i get marry, i be ok to have sex with her without worry that there a chance that i have hiv?
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You DO NOT have HIV,  Kindly Move along
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Does cum in her mouth make any different? This will be my last question. I thank both of you for your help.
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If i take the test, would my test result be accurate?
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You didn't have a risk and you've been told 3 times.
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This is my last post, i having a rapid oral hiv test 10/29 which is like over 30 day. Does my test accurate or should i test again in 2 week? I really scar because I see 3 lump on the back of my tongue and chest pain. Do you think i will test negative again in 2 week? I just want to have peach of mind because it freak me out.
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You don't need to test at all, you didn't have a risk.
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How do u know that? Does my negative rapid oral test is accurate? I have white tongue n lump on the back of my tongue n chest pain. I keep told my self I negative but my mind say otherwise. I want to put this behind me. Do u guy think I should see my doctor tomorrow to get rna test?
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What part of, "you didn't have a risk" is it you don't understand?
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No incident HIV infections among MSM who practice exclusively oral sex.
Int Conf AIDS 2004 Jul 11-16; 15:(abstract no. WePpC2072)??Balls JE, Evans JL, Dilley J, Osmond D, Shiboski S, Shiboski C, Klausner J, McFarland W, Greenspan D, Page-Shafer K?University of California, San Francisco, San Francisco, United States

Oral transmission of HIV, reality or fiction? An update
J Campo1, MA Perea1, J del Romero2, J Cano1, V Hernando2, A Bascones1
Oral Diseases (2006) 12, 219–228

AIDS: Volume 16(17) 22 November 2002 pp 2350-2352
Risk of HIV infection attributable to oral sex among men who have sex with men and in the population of men who have sex with men

Page-Shafer, Kimberlya,b; Shiboski, Caroline Hb; Osmond, Dennis Hc; Dilley, Jamesd; McFarland, Willie; Shiboski, Steve Cc; Klausner, Jeffrey De; Balls, Joycea; Greenspan, Deborahb; Greenspan
Page-Shafer K, Veugelers PJ, Moss AR, Strathdee S, Kaldor JM, van Griensven GJ. Sexual risk behavior and risk factors for HIV-1 seroconversion in homosexual men participating in the Tricontinental Seroconverter Study, 1982-1994 [published erratum appears in Am J Epidemiol 1997 15 Dec; 146(12):1076]. Am J Epidemiol 1997, 146:531-542.

Studies which show the fallacy of relying on anecdotal evidence as opposed to carefully controlled study insofar as HIV transmission risk is concerned:

Jenicek M. "Clinical Case Reporting" in Evidence-Based Medicine. Oxford: Butterworth–Heinemann; 1999:117

Saltzman SP, Stoddard AM, McCusker J, Moon MW, Mayer KH. Reliability of self-reported sexual behavior risk factors for HIV infection in homosexual men. Public Health Rep. 1987 102(6):692–697.Nov–Dec;

Catania JA, Gibson DR, Chitwood DD, Coates TJ. Methodological problems in AIDS behavioral research: influences on measurement error and participation bias in studies of sexual behavior. Psychol Bull. 1990 Nov;108(3):339–362.

There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex. The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way. Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk". There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".

"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Please educate yourself about the real risks. If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. " DR HANSFIELD

"I am sure you can find lots of people who belive that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..." DR HOOK
"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK

in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?

"The observation on thousand and thousand of observations is that HIV is not spread by oral sex (of any sort)." DR HOOK
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I was so freak out because i afraid i going to lose everything from this mistake. The concern i have is that i have a wound after i oral sex plus she is positive. I read cdc and other say if i have wound on my penis there is a high risk of getting hiv if she have blood in her mouth.
I will learn more about hiv and aids and hopefully i can help other that think they have hiv from oral sex. Thank for help. I will do to see doctor tomorrow for a complete std plus hiv and physical exam. You guy really put my mind at ease.
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I got test last week for std and hiv. Both coming out negative. The problem is that i have lump in the back of my tongue, and i feel constant fever. So far i have negative at 5 and 6 week. Does my test mean anything since it say conclusive at 12 week.
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