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I was recently at a gentlemens club and bought a VIP dance. During the dance, the stripper stuck her vagina in my face and I did what any drunk guy would do and gave it a **little** lick/kiss. I did not do it for more than a second, dont think I penetrated her and I recall that she was vaginally dry on the outside. I commonly have mouth ulcers and had some at the time.

Given your expirience with the disease and my situation, what would my exposure risk be? I am scared to death that I may have contracted HIV and am very anxious about it. Everything I have read tells me that that type of risk comes out to about .04%. should I be concerned?

I take solace in the fact that even though I wanted more, the stripper would not do anything else with me and seemed very cautious about everything else.  

HELP!!!
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Thanks for the responses. I am so freaked out about this. I see that the overwhelming consensus is that there is little to no risk, not only in your responses to my post, but from others in similar postings. The web is full of conflicting information. I think I’m going to play it safe and not have sex with the wife until 4 weeks after possible exposure and get a test. I know that the 3 month period is safe, but I figured the 4 week mark may show something. At least it may give me some peace of mind and closure on this idiotic thing I did.
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427652 tn?1248559639
You said, and I quote,

" .............I am scared to death that I may have contracted HIV ............ am very anxious about it............. Everything I have read ............ should I be concerned?

You`re thinking and acting irrationally because you`re worried.
Bottom line is you licked a good looking womans *****. 99% of men would be jealous and not worry one bit.
You`re risk for HIV was nil and you haven`t contracted it.Don`t surf the net looking for answers as its full of conflicting misinformation. What I`ve said , however,  is right.

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1644134 tn?1301060960
Even tho im 16 ive had my shares with my ex's ("SHARES") but i dont think u should b e worried if u didnt penetrate her it shouldnt do much but if u really wanna get into how u can see if its gunna be a problem add me and message me then we can figure this out : |
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366749 tn?1544695265
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As you remember, you did not have any unprotected or protected penetration, your risk is non existent. Oral to genital contact is no risk.
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