Hiv ars worry

[Anxietyisakiller]

Hey,
Thank you in advance for anyone who can give me some insight on my situation.
I am a 22 year old female college student who performed fellatio unprotected on another man and protected sex with a condom for about a minute. I tasted some pre cum in the mouth and spit it out. However after i noticed a hpv wart or what looked to be a clear bump under the head of his penis. I had no cuts or sores in my mouth. I asked for his std status he said he was clean. I immediately started panicking thinkinking that he was lying to me.
About 1 weeks after this incident i got a full panel std test- everything came out negative. 2 1/2 weeks late i got canker sores on my gums. Now at 4 weeks im getting frequent headaches and the left side of my pharynx looks like "cobblestone throat" and its red, it feels like a sore throat with some ear pain and mucous stuffy nose
Someone please honestly give me an opinion on if they think i could have gotten hiv. I am so depressed with tons of anxiety i cant sleep at night. I plan on getting tested next week again for Hiv, i dont know how much longer i can go with this worry :(

[JamesD1991]

You had no risk, so whatever you're feeling isn't HIV

[Anxietyisakiller]

Iommi, does this sound like a possible hiv infection to you?

[iommi]

Oral is considered as a zero risk for hiv though perfect storm sinareos have been mentioned elsewhere. This forum would considers this a no risk event for hiv.

As previously stated other STDs and STIs are possible.
28 Days Post this encounter you can take a 4th generation duo test and not kick yourself for 3 months wondering. Follow through with your other std test to a conclusive time.

[Anxietyisakiller]

Thank you so much

[cerdo]

it is not possible to determine hiv by symptoms. though some of your symptoms happen when people are infected with HIV, there are many other causes with the same symptoms (like bacterial infections). maybe you got an std from him, who knows? but regarding HIV it is very unlikely for the reasons i mentioned before. if u want to be 100% its not HIV, you will have to wait after 3months to get tested. in the meantime, try to calm yourself and think positive. later when you get the negative results, you wil regret all the time you have wasted worrying about something that wasnt even there! its not easy, but there is no other way. but like i said, it is very unlikely you got HIV just by that oral sex.

[Anxietyisakiller]

By my symptoms do you think i have hiv?

[cerdo]

stds have different incubation time (when they can be detected) but generally after 4 weeks may be the right time to get tested.

[Anxietyisakiller]

thank you for ur respone. I been reading online and see diff responses on contracting hiv through fellatio, i am so confused!!! Do you think it was too early to test for stds?

[cerdo]

considering your discription, you may have indeed got infected with a virus or bacteria from him. and i understand that not knowing what kind of bacteria or virus is making you worried. but about HIV, you don't need to worry, like u said, you had a healthy mouth at the time of exposure. oral sex is generally no risk for hiv because of saliva in the mouth (assuming he is HIV+). try to stay calm.