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Hiv risk vaginal fluid

Hello and thanks for all the support on this topic:

    On September 25, 2018 I had a possible risk at a strip club. I had a private dance with a girl and she got a lot of vaginal sections on my pants. I also fingered her for a short time. But what concerned me the most was she got vaginal fluid on her fingers (moderate amount) then brought those fingers to her mouth then we frenched kissed. Not sure if it matters but afterwards she told me she was 15 weeks pregnant. 24 days after this experience I had a rash that streaked up the back of my calves. It did itch and the doctor said it was poison oak which I’ve never had before. I thought it could be contact dermatitis because of a brand new pair of jeans which I wore that night when I first started to itch on my calves. It only stayed on my calves and no where else and lasted about two weeks. Then about 10 days later I started to have a headache and it’s lasted 38 days now. The only other weird symptom is I feel fatigued for as long as I’ve had the headache and not my usual energy. It’s unusual symptoms for my cause I never get sick and get rashes or headaches at all. Not to mention headaches for that long and feel fatigued.

1) Any risk from vaginal fluid on my pants which dampened my pants?

2) Fingering her and possibly touching mouth?

3) Most concerning is vaginal fluid on her finger transfered to her mouth then we Frenched kissed?

4) should I get tested for std’s

Do I need to get tested or should I just move on with my life? I’ve been worried sick for almost two months. Thanks again for your help!
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3191940 tn?1447268717
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The only adult risks for HIV are:
1) having unprotected, penetrative vaginal or anal sex with someone of unknown status, or
2) sharing intravenous drug needles

No penetration, penis inside vagina/anus = no risk.  Fluid, once outside of the body, is no longer infectious.  Additionally, ingestion is not a way you can contract HIV.  You had zero risk for HIV and you do not need to test.
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Thank you for your help I really appreciate it!
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