Less than a week ago, I decided to go to my first (and it will be my only) swinger party. I met a lady whose been in the community for over a dozen years. We were hanging out in the pool, making out and I was fingering her (I checked my hand afterwards and I didn't see any cuts). Then we went off to a room. I placed a condom on, and we proceeded to dry hump for a bit. After a short amount of time, I tried to insert my penis into her vagina, but I will admit that I got a little over excited in the moment and came in the condom before I could insert it. After I took the condom off, she proceeded to give me a blow job for about 5 minutes and then I decided to leave. I left the party right after because I realized it wasn't my scene. Earlier in the day before I attended the party, I was doing some manscaping and nicked a small cut on my scrotum (it was a very small cut, that bled for a short amount of time). I tried super gluing it, but after the party I checked and the super glue was gone. This was my first time with a stranger (I was curious about the lifestyle community, not anymore) and now I'm worried that I might have ruined the rest of my life because of this stupid action. I've read a few forums discussing that it's low to no risk of getting HIV through a cut on your scrotum. I can't remember if any of her saliva and/or vaginal discharge got onto my cut. Also the fact that the lady I was with has been in the lifestyle community for so long has freaked me out as well.
How at risk am I of contracting HIV due to my actions? I woke up with a sore throat the next day and I've been battling a slight cold since, but I think it's too early to tell the sypmtoms of HIV. I'm waiting for the 9-10 day mark so that I can take the HIV RNA test, but my mind is racing and causing me anxiety.