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I afraid I got Symptoms of HIV.

Hi Doctor.  I'm sorry if my English wil be bad in this questions as i really really wan to get advise from you.  
Today is 23 Oct 2017, 1 year ago (around December 2016)i had sex with a man who just know few times before,  we have sex unprotected for 3 days together on holiday.  
After that,  i not really attention about my symptom, after few months ,  i just get the some big pimples on me head,very sore, it's repeat many times, I  get 1 inflammation of the lymph node in the neck,and get fever about 37.5°c,   but everything gone out after the boils disappear.
I have No rash at all in one year until now,   no high fever,  but i get cervicitis , i get few months to  treatment.  But now OK already.  
20th August,  i had sex with my new boyfriend in Singapore ( he coming Singapore from New Zealand ) . I always afraid that i will ttransmission of disease for him,  at that time i get sick ( SORE THROAT ), then after one day we have sex. He had too,  but recover after take med in one day.
Then he back home he said always few hot at midnight,  sometimes he get fever at night but not high then recover at next day without medition.  
But he not rash at all too .
And last week (beginning of Oct ) he get coughing for 1 week without sore throat,  rash or fever.  And recover after  i ask him take med,  (he is  just take one day to taken med. )
I'm very worries everyday,  i afraid to asking the one i had sex before (he stil living as normal )
I worries about my boyfriend now,  if we had hiv,  i just wanna die : ()
Doctor,  pls give me an advice as i don't dare to tell anyone.   Next week i wil going to do Surgical circumcision, before that i think hospital wil check up his body including Hiv testing,  i very worries that pp report that he get hiv ;() pls help me.
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Was it oral or vaginal unprotected sex?
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Vaginal unprotected: (
A 4th generation duo test is conclusive at 28 days so either of you can test now. Symptoms can't prove anything, because you interact with other people who have sore throats and can spread this by coughing at any time to you. For that reason HIV doctors don't use symptoms to diagnose and you can't either.
Try to relax while you both wait for a test and not think about symptoms because nothing is pointing toward you or him having HIV.
Thank you so much for advice
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Sorry my wrong
Next week HE Will going to do Surgical circumcision, before that i think hospital wil check up his body including Hiv testing,  i very worries that pp report that he get Hiv,  pls help me
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