I had sex with a guy (we're casual friends) on December 12... almost 3 weeks ago, I believe. We've had sex before, but this time we failed to use a condom. Stupid, I know. I really don't think he ejaculated in me (he told me he didn't and we were also worried about possible pregnancy), but he's really just a "casual" friend and I don't know how much I can believe him. He DID ejaculate on my body and a little got into my mouth - I know oral is pretty low risk, but I am really just worried about the vaginal contact. Because if he really didn't ejaculate inside of me, he definitely got some pre-ejaculation inside of me.
The next day, I was very worried about a possible STD exposure, but really just freaking out about HIV. I asked him if he was completely STD-free and he assured me that he was... but really, how do I know he's telling the truth? I don't.
My QUESTION: What really is my risk? I want to get tested asap, but I don't know how reliable the results will be... And I don't want to wait and wait... the anxiety is killing me. Do I really have to be completely freaked out for the next 6 months??? I won't be able to live my life having to wait that long for reassurance...
Please help :(
Studies have concluded that precum carries an extremely low viral load, so low as to be undetectable. Please do yourself a favor here, calm down, get checked out at four weeks ( it will almost certainly be negative) and if you need to go for a confirmation test at twelve weeks, it too will almost certainly be negative.
Kevin.