just curious on how you came up with the 99% chance that she has hiv????
nothing that you described put you at risk for contracting hiv...NOTHING
Thank you for your understanding and assurance as well. I was really worried and that made me imagine all the scenes happened that night one by one. I know, that lady had sexual relationship with other men also. And she belongs to a middle class family where it was not possible to have awareness about HIV and other preventive measures. She never insisted me to put condoms at the time of sex. It was just my wish to put the condom on. Having this in mind, I made it sure that this might be the way she had approached other guys as well.
Till now I haven't recovered from the tiredness or fatigue (whatever the term is ). Sometimes I can feel an increase in the heartbeat. I don't know if these symptoms are all part of my anxiety and fear of HIV. Heard somewhere that it all depend on what we think. The things that made me anxious were the vaginal fluids on my hand when the finger had a cut and the kissing when I had a bleeding gum even though it wasn't an open mouth kissing.
I am waiting for the 90th day since September 25th, so that I can get myself tested. I had a peace of mind when I read your comment. But now, while writing this, my mind takes me to somewhere else and making me think all those. I really don't know Lizzie. You might be right but I don't know how to convince myself. :(
im a gay man from china, its quite hard for me to find this forum and type so much english ,so please give me some answer .
i was with a male hooker last nite, he used his finger to massage my peri-anal region but too hard ,so there was open cut and a little blood.then he was just thrusting his hard penis on my anal region for about half a minute ,trying to get in without a condom.！ i did not let him to Penetration. ！but his precum may still touch my open cuts in this manner (there was blood). i don know if this was anal sex.
so is this kind of exposure or a high risk? i know fingering with precum is not exposure but this was precum directly from his penis, i think there may be some difference?
thank u again!!!
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sorry i did not know that but i offered some more specific details from my last question.
is that still against the rules here?
You have multiple threads and you just hijacked this persons thread. Yes it's against the rules and you've never had an exposure.
sorry for causing trouble