You had absolutely no risk from this scenario. Your anal sex was protected. Getting a hand job is NOT a risk for HIV- no matter WHAT scenarios you come up with. You simply cannot get HIV from a hand job- it doesn't happen and will not happen.
You certainly do not need PEP because you never had an exposure to HIV. Good for you- you used condoms. Continue to use condoms for anal/vaginal sex and you will remain HIV negative.
hey guys i know that it has been a while but i am unsure again about my situation.
as of right now its been about 17-18 days since that possible exposure, but now i am experiencing what i think are primary HIV infection symptoms... I had pushed the thought of it out of my mind after i got your reassurance and wasn't anxious about HIV at all until only a few days ago when i started to notice symptoms. For the past week or so my lymph nodes under my jaw have been swollen. and today i noticed that my muscles are sore all over my body especially in the left side of my neck (myalgia?). Ive been really tired lately and have a constant dull mild headache.This is all happening in about the timeframe that these symptoms would show up if it were indeed HIV so i am kind of unsettled by it. i really want to get tested asap but will the results even be accurate after 18 days?
Doesn't sound like acute HIV infection symptoms- almost everybody who comes on this forum complains of aches and pains- think STRESS not HIV.