There are no exclusive hiv symptoms.
You did have a risk because of the unknown so it is easy to think the worst.
HIV is not easily transferred female to male even if one of them was positive.
Any antibody test at this time will be conclusive.
I've been in your shoes, you must test regardless of the fear you are putting yourself through.
Unfortunately, no one here can help you. HIV can't be diagnosed by symptoms, and you did have a risk. The good news is that you can take ANY antibody test at any time now, and your result will be conclusive. Whatever the result, it will be less scary than living in limbo wondering "what if."
Please take a test as soon as you are able.