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Did I contract hiv?

I just had a massage that finished with some intense body rubbing. The masseuse insisted on taking off her pants but I told her to leave them on. There was kissing, breast sucking, frottage with my penis over and into her vagina(while she kept her pants on) and fingering of her vagina with her pants on. Almost like a lapdance but my erect penis did simulate the sexual act by pushing up against her vagina with her pants on. Does this constitute as a risk for hiv? Super anxious. Thank you.
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Thank you curfew. That's the response I needed to hear. I know it sounds silly but when you're full of regret and anxiety stds do sound like they have super powers. Thank you!
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Thank you for that anxious. So no matter how hard my penis pressed on her vagina as long as she kept her pants on (and panties on underneath)  that was a sufficient barrier? Thank you for your help with this.
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You cannot get HIV or any STDs when one or both partners have any clothing on.  STDs do not have superpowers that permit transfer through clothing.
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Your situation involves contact with an object in air (her body) which is not a risk for hiv. No worries, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did. Analysis of large numbers of infected people has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is effectively instantly dead in air so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and that which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
She is the last person I would kiss though, because she catches every flu and virus in town from the guys who kissed ahead of you so whenever she is infected she passes that on.
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