I'm sick to my stomach with fear

[Mike019]

Hi
I am 26 years old and made a huge mistake, me and three friends went out and had way too much to drink, I ended up blacking out along with my other friend who came over to my house this was stupid and irresponsible and I usually don't ever drink to this extent. He ended up calling an escort over don't ever remember her showing up don't remember anything I wake up in the morning to two used condoms and a bunch of baby wipes I am worried because I remember nothing and I am scared that I might have had unprotected sex or at risk for some sort of std. what should I do?? Any advise pleaseeeee

[Mike019]

Thanks Chima7 but everyone makes mistakes and this was a mistake, it was dumb I agree thank you for making me feel worse. I thought I would come here for support, not to be ridiculed with your judgment I am young I am sure others have had a night they don't remember.

[AnxiousNoMore]

There is no need to take it personally, since it was good forward looking advice, and not a prior judgement. Chima merely noted that you got ripped off.

[kapster1978]

Mike it is Just good adviseren. Because a blackout only happens if the alcohol leven is so high, that your brainstormen is getting toxicited and with every blackout the brain getsiederrie damagef quiche by alcohol.  But yes everyone maken mistakes and many of us had experienced to be to drunk. But please be Carefull next time.

[Chima7]

Judging by what you have posted, it sounds like you and your friend just got ripped off for $500. I highly doubt that anything else happened except a thief took your money.

Although I don't believe you have any concerns for HIV, since it's highly unlikely that you had sex with anyone, I do think you have a rather severe alcohol abuse problem which needs to be addressed. I suggest you seek out AA to help you resolve your alcohol problem before you kill yourself with liquor.

[kapster1978]

Have you spoken to your mate? I expert that if you Black out you also Could not performance, maybe your made did the Girls only. Also if it's an escort normaly she will be responsible in teams of condom and in case you and your mate were too drink and Black out she might not even really did something as she rather get moet and don't do it if the guys are too drunk. Any money gone etc?

[Mike019]

Yes my buddy had money it's all gone $500 to be exact I had none. My friend doesn't remember anything and neither do I. I don't even remember anyone showing up or coming over. All I know is I woke up to two used condoms and a bunch of baby wipes, no semen in either condom. Worse case scenario in my head ... they came over tried to get one or both to perform to no avail and left. The only thing that eases my mind is knowing condoms were used but were they used the whole time?? As you say escorts wouldn't want to have unprotected sex with strangers. It's been a week with no songs of infection or symptoms of any sort, I don't know whether to get checked out or not. My buddy isn't worried chalked it up to a bad night that will never happen again me and the other hand am worried about stds and posssibly contracting HIV

[kapster1978]

Can you Call the escort service where the Girls is working for? Because to be honest it sounds like she got $500,- without having to do anything and to make sure you guys think that something is done got two condoms wrapped them out etc and used babywipes Just to Let you guys think something happend and would Call the service that you have been robbed. If you blackout from alcohol, you would not really be able to perform and get it up. Your buddy also doesn't remember her coming in? Hiv I don't think will be a case, even when you would have unprotected sex(which didn't happen I'm pretty sure). For peace of mind you can do a full std test after 4 weeks (2 weeks would be ok for chlamydia and gonno) then believen the result. I'm pretty sure Hiv is out of the question in this case And I really would not be surprised if you guys been robbed and didn't had sex to begin with but lost the $500,-. Ps if you smelt the condoms you would smelt if it's used at all. Where the condoms from your side or did she being these with her?

[AnxiousNoMore]

No one remembers what happened? You can't contact the escort? Usually they are too smart for unprotected, and since you found some used condoms it would seem likely that whoever was able to perform was made to wear one by her. I
t doesn't matter how badly they were handled in unsanitary conditions and if your hands had her fluids or some other guys on them because HIV is inactivated in air. All that matters is just as long as it was worn over the penis head during vaginal or anal penetration.