Hi,
I had unprotected sex with a woman early morning on January 23, 2018. I am from a subcontinent country and she migrated to a large first world country in the East. She returned on holiday and we had sex. I came to know that she had called our other friends, who I believe were also negative but somehow with one of them I learned the sex didn't happen due to erectile dysfunction.
I always wanted to be safe but as she was ignorant of safe sex and due to power dynamics and repression, I gave in. She was a bit insistent on unsafe sex.
I took PEP after 67.5 hours after exposure. I completed the PEP course without missing a single dose. I tested immediately after the completion of PEP with 4th generation tests on day 29, 30, 41, 49, 58, 70, 72, 84 and 114 (84 days or 12 weeks after completion of PEP).
Is this result conclusive? Some old guidelines say one should test six months after an exposure post PEP for conclusive results? This plays on my mind heavily and increases my OCD.
I was also obsessed about an event on day 72, when I slashed my little finger with a knife while cutting tape and had sutures performed. I feared the nurse reused the syringe. However, I tested negative on day 114, after day 72. I still also fear getting a religious tonsure from a temple visited by a large number of people, as the guy used his own blade and I couldn't get one.
My questions are:
1) Is my 114 day, 12 weeks post PEP, 16 weeks post exposure results conclusive?
2) Is the syringe at the hospital on day 72 worth fearing for a transmission?
3) Is my tonsuring with a used blade, if it were, any risk?
4) Testing at the 6 month mark has been giving me a lot of anxiety. Should I test 6 months after exposure and 5 months after PEP for a conclusive result?
Someone please let me know. I would like it if someone like Teak would say move on :) Thank you all in advance