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Lap dance

Recently I had my first and what will be my only lap dance. The entire time the dancer was wearing thin panties and I had pants and underwear on.  From what I read it is impossible to obtain a STD or HIV from a lap dance.  What I did not expect was this dancer placing her vagina near my face with her panties on, not exactly a lap dance. My mouth and nose were within inches of this area  This resulted one time with my lip touching her panties, it what appeared to be close to her vagina area and the dance ended soon after. No oral sex.  What are my chances of having a STD or HIV????  
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Will the test itself have any validity???  I read that 2 weeks after exposure that 50% of folks will be starting to build anti-bodies, so maybe at week it might be 25%??

Thanks a ton, I really appreciate your help!!!!!!  


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Because you didn't have a risk.
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Zero because you feel my risk is zero.  Or because 6 days is not enough time to hava a any validiity???
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ZERO. And you have a quack for a Dr. if he told you to test.
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I went and saw the doctor today, he recommended complete testing, So I had a blood and urine test today, 6 days past the above lap dance.  My doctor is indicating the validity of this test for HIV is pretty good.  From what I read on this form 30 days appear to be the least number of days post possible exposure for fairly reliable results. So I am wondering what is the validity of a test 6 days post exposure????  Was it even worth the time????   If this comes back negative should I test again at the 30, 60 and 90 marks!!

Thanks,
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I went and saw the doctor today, he recommended complete testing, So I had a blood and urine test today, 6 days past the above lap dance.  My doctor is indicating the validity of this test for HIV is pretty good.  From what I read on this form 30 days appear to be the least number of days post possible exposure for fairly reliable results. So I am wondering what is the validity of a test 6 days post exposure????  Was it even worth the time????   If this comes back negative should I test again at the 30, 60 and 90 marks!!

Thanks,

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You still wouldn't have had a risk. HIV is transmitted by unprotected vagina or anal sex or sharing works with other IV drug abusers. HIV does not stay active outside it's host.
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Thanks for your responses!!!   I admitt I am paranoid but here goes, peace of mind is worth it.  Panties are very small, what if by some chance my lips came in contact with a vaginal area?? What about vaginal secrections that may have been on her panties???
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386032 tn?1220401438
no risk !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you cant even get a good case of crabs that way. please learn something of transmission of hiv and othe std before venturing out
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none whatsoever not even remote chance.  
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277836 tn?1359666174
No its not possible
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