I am 31 and been married for 8 years, I have always been a little Bi-Curious but repressed the other side until just recently when I went out town on business this summer (July) and went out with a guy who I later found out had HIV. We did not have sex though I did put his **** in my mouth for a brief moment (few seconds probably). I did not even remember this until he told me just recently he had HIV, which freaked me out. I also have just had unprotected anal sex with a guy that claims he is clean, and I was the insertive partner (top) and I did cum inside him. Now with the news of this other guy I am very stressed about my own risk and exposure to my wife. I do not believe I have any symptoms of any STDs, except my tonsils have been a little swollen lately, but they have been enlarged most of my life. The partner I had sex with was an erotic massage therapist, but claims I was the only guy he ever invited back to his room since he had a partner until now. We looked for a condomn and couldnt find one and proceeded anyway- (yea I know that wasn't smart) but obviously I wasnt thinking right either. Please tell me my risk assessment. Until this I have been monogamous with my wife.