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Mutual Masturbation with a toy

Hi All,
I am a bisexual male, I do not have sex with other males or perform or receive oral sex.

I only do mutual masturbation with other males

A day ago I had an experience though, it was a little bit different.

The male I was with put a fleshlight, (penis masturbation sleeve) over my penis and started to masturbate me with it. I stopped him after not to long because it hit me, what if this had not been cleaned and he had a partner the night before, what if he had used it recently?

Is this something that I should be worried about, do I need testing for this?

Thank you in advance.
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You do have risk for Covid though because unlike hiv,  it is not a fragile virus, so you should take precautions.
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Thank you for the response, Covid is not a problem in the country, or should I say the state in which I live in and my heart goes out to those that are in a country that it has affected.

HIV is a fragile virus but in my head I can see the way it could survive in a fleshlight, I am not anxious or worried as I know I am fine. My sexual lifestyle has kept me in a state of knowing I am safe from STD's and will continue to enjoy it.

Much appreciated AnxiousNoMore.

Uh, covid is a problem everywhere.  I'm not saying you have it, you have no symptoms of it, but if you act like it isn't a problem you greatly increase your chance of getting it at some point.  Until it stops spreading all over the world, tomorrow it could be where you are.  It could have gotten there yesterday.  Or last week.  There's a lag time before cases start being noticed.  So don't stop your life about it, but do be aware.  And you know, any form of sex is sex, so yes, you are having sex with males.  It's just not sex that is a risk for HIV.  Peace.
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  (fleshlight which is not a risk for hiv.) No worries, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
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