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My Risk, your feedback....

First, I would like to thank everyone ahead of time for their comments and help.

I am 31 yr old male.  I have been married for two years now.  I was recently hanging out with some old high school friends and someone had heard that a woman that I was sexually involved with at that time (for one night only) had gone and been tested for possibly HIV. This was just over 12 years ago.  To explain my encounter, it was a quick moment of unprotected vaginal sex.  Literally, it was about 5-6 thrusts and I pulled out.  Again, this was unprotected.  I never did think of anything after that time.  I did get sick, flu/cold about a month later.  I went to the doctor and got meds for it.  Then about another month or so, I did get a rash on my body.  It started on my wrists and slowly spread to my arms, chest, face and entire body.  I went to see the doctor and he didnt think it was much of anything. The rash was not itchy, they were flat, red spots, very small, like pen dots.  When you press on them with your finger, they would flush away and come back, when you depress your finger.  I think I was prescribed something, but not sure, again, this was 12 years ago. The rash cleared on it's own after 2 or 3 days.  I did have some night sweats as well.  Also, after this time, I started developing slight heart palpitations, which I still experience today, but maybe once every month or so.  As far as that, in a span of 12 years, I haven't had issues, but now, in the back of my mind, I am very concerned and I wanted to get everyone's feedback.  Thank you.
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Why are you just now worried about something that happened 12 years ago. Don't you think if you were really concerned you would have tested? We can't tell you anything without you testing.
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219662 tn?1223858560
People usually die of AIDS in the span of 12 years.  Also, your risk was close to zero.  Take a test if you are that concerned, expect a negative.
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Like normal that is incorrect information. Not all people with AIDS dies within 12 years. The only way you will know your status is to test to relieve you of your anxiety.
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very true Teak..I guess it's just the mind and the fear that I just recently built up, after hearing about it.  My problem is that I began researching ARS, and other symptoms. thanks you
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Well, testing is happenning tomorrow morning.  Quick question regarding the rash.  Does the ARS rash dissappear when you press on the spots and come back when you depress your fingers? And be small pin size dots? SOrry for all of the questions, im done after this one.
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219662 tn?1223858560
No, that is correct.  People usually get AIDS and die (if untreated) within 12 years of infection.  Not everyone, but the vast majority.  I think Nw should get tested, but a positive result is unlikely.  He should expect a negative.
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I can think of two reasons for one to be infected with HIV but got progress to AIDS and not be on medication. LTNP-long term non progressors and Elite Controllers so again Joey your information was incorrect.
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173325 tn?1213936521
If it was ARS they most likely would of occurred together.  Get tested to make sure man.  What are you waiting for.
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173325 tn?1213936521
My apologies...I see you did get a test... Better late than never...  I think you'll be fine man if that indeed was your only "exposure".
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219662 tn?1223858560
I'm sorry, I will not waste my time explaining the meaning of the word "usually" to you.  Look it up yourself.  Only a few percent of HIV-infected people are LTNPs, a small minority.  
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You should be sorry for giving out incorrect information.
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