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Naked body massage without condom

Yesterday I had naked massage session with sex workers It was without condom.
I am worried about following reasons.
1. I sucked her nipples several times and there was breast secretion in my mouth which I didn't swollen have cuts on my lips
2. I fingered her vagina several times with
    cuts on my finger
3. With same hand having vaginal secretion I masturbated
4. She gave me hand job without condom.
5. There were several incidents of her vagina rubbing against my pennis.
Do I need testing kindly help me out
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  (maybe blood, maybe cuts, penis touching vagina, sucking,  etc. ) . You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you ANSWER "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either.  You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
If you still have questions about your risk, after reading all of the above, then it is because you didn't answer the QUESTION above.

I had cut on finger and fingering vagina my cut on finger come in contact with vaginal fluid is it safe ? Do I need testing
And my pennis also rubbed against her vagina
You know why you keep asking? It has to be one of two things. You didn't take the time to read what was written for why this was no risk. OR you have an anxiety disorder that is out of control.

Risks:  having unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing IV needles to inject drugs. That's it. Nothing else. Air and saliva inactivate the virus.  That answers all your questions. Move on
Sorry I don't want to be rude. Since I am new to this community I just want to know that are you all medical care workers?
I'm not interested in answering personal questions to appease your anxiety. This is a moderated forum and incorrect answers are not allowed to remain. We follow the information that experts in the field of HIV use. No more reassurance for your anxiety driven questions.
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If she used same hand to simulate her vagina and jerk off my pennis is it still safe she had discharge on her hand
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