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Need Advise For My Strip Club Incident
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Please help me in understanding my problem that i am going through. Please bear with me for my questions. This was my first time visit to the strip club as my friends took me. I was told that i can take lap dances for 20 $ and so went with a stripper. Being first time I was scared as my friends teased me saying that i can even have sex with stripper. The stripper gave me three lap dances for about 15 minutes and i got tempted , touched and rubbed & pressed her breasts, buttocks and thighs with my bare hands.After three dances she said that for 300$ she can offer me sex in private room. I got scared and left. I was scared with what i did. I didnot have any sex as i was fully clothed. The stripper grinded me on my genitals, touched my genitals with her hands and kept her breasts also on my face but being scared i didnot even open my mouth and lick them. AFter coming out my friends warned that there could be risk with what i did. They told me that i shud check with a doctor and explain my problem. Being anxious i started looking in the internet and landed up here. Please advise if my sitiuation was risky for me to catch any STDs or in particularly HIV. I am scared to death.
1) Rubbing with bare hands I mean palms on a woman's naked buttocks, thighs and pressing breasts is any way infectious. DOnt know about the health condition of the stripper and did not even enquire with her. Is a woman's breast skin, buttocks and thighs skin host the std/hiv microorganisms. If so can they get into my hands.
2) My left palm had minor wear and tear here and there with skin surface being rough and scraped as i was working on my basement project and had to handle lot of tools. Can the those minor tears/openings on my palm can get the infection transferred from the woman's skin. This makes me really worry . I didnot have any blood or a freshly open cut in my palms when i rubbed the stripper. Will that really matter
Please help me out. I am confused. SHould i consult a dcotor and go for any testing.
Please help me in understanding my problem that i am going through. Please bear with me for my questions. This was my first time visit to the strip club as my friends took me. I was told that i can take lap dances for 20 $ and so went with a stripper. Being first time I was scared as my friends teased me saying that i can even have sex with stripper. The stripper gave me three lap dances for about 15 minutes and i got tempted , touched and rubbed & pressed her breasts, buttocks and thighs with my bare hands.After three dances she said that for 300$ she can offer me sex in private room. I got scared and left. I was scared with what i did. I didnot have any sex as i was fully clothed. The stripper grinded me on my genitals, touched my genitals with her hands and kept her breasts also on my face but being scared i didnot even open my mouth and lick them. AFter coming out my friends warned that there could be risk with what i did. They told me that i shud check with a doctor and explain my problem. Being anxious i started looking in the internet and landed up here. Please advise if my sitiuation was risky for me to catch any STDs or in particularly HIV. I am scared to death.
1) Rubbing with bare hands I mean palms on a woman's naked buttocks, thighs and pressing breasts is any way infectious. DOnt know about the health condition of the stripper and did not even enquire with her. Is a woman's breast skin, buttocks and thighs skin host the std/hiv microorganisms. If so can they get into my hands.
2) My left palm had minor wear and tear here and there with skin surface being rough and scraped as i was working on my basement project and had to handle lot of tools. Can the those minor tears/openings on my palm can get the infection transferred from the woman's skin. This makes me really worry . I didnot have any blood or a freshly open cut in my palms when i rubbed the stripper. Will that really matter
Please help me out. I am confused. SHould i consult a dcotor and go for any testing.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air so you can safely touch her anywhere. Only sex risk is unprotected penetrating anal or vaginal and in fact only the head needs protection with a condom so a test would be purposeless.
After reading the above advice showing how hard it is to get HIV, you can see that your friends were having some fun with your anxiety when they said you had a risk.
After reading the above advice showing how hard it is to get HIV, you can see that your friends were having some fun with your anxiety when they said you had a risk.
Sounds like your friends are uninformed. So, here is the information for you and for you to share with them. This is how people get HIV . . . Unprotected vaginal or anal sex (where penetration occurs) or sharing of IV drug needles. That's it. This was in no way a risk. HIV is a fragile virus that is inactivated in air and saliva. So, rest easy about this encounter. But if things like this make you really nervous, avoid them. Not worth it. And don't let peer pressure make you do things you aren't comfortable with. Your friends teased you into doing it and then scared you that it was a risk (inaccurately). Not cool.
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