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Hi all...My Name is Talib....I am here to share my concern with u all for some advice....I am in a fear of HIV from llst few days bcoz of some past events which I am explaining below in points.
1) 2 Feb 2020--Anal Sex with a Trans where I am the Inserter...I wore the condom and this event last for around 2 minutes when I stopped doing it further...Dont know if the condom was intact or not during this.
9 Feb) Negative HIV test which was performed as a routine checkup with some other blood worrks
2) 18th March --- Unprotected Oral for 2 minutes and Protected Vaginal for 3 4 minutes...Condom was Intact during this.
3) 18th June---Unprotected Oral for a minute and Protected Vaginal with some lip to lip.kisses and fingering
4) 15th July---- Protected Oral and Protected Vaginal...This time the condom was slipped and my penis was exposed in her vagina for nt more than 4 5 seconds..
5) 25 August Protected Oral and Protected Vaginal...Condom was intact....Deep.kissing Involved for 4 5 minutes
MY CONCERN IS FOR HIV...KINDLY SUGGEST...NEED OF TESTING AND CHANCES OF INFECTION
EARLY AND EXPLAINED RESPONSE WILL BE APPRECIATED.Thnks in Advance
1) 2 Feb 2020--Anal Sex with a Trans where I am the Inserter...I wore the condom and this event last for around 2 minutes when I stopped doing it further...Dont know if the condom was intact or not during this.
9 Feb) Negative HIV test which was performed as a routine checkup with some other blood worrks
2) 18th March --- Unprotected Oral for 2 minutes and Protected Vaginal for 3 4 minutes...Condom was Intact during this.
3) 18th June---Unprotected Oral for a minute and Protected Vaginal with some lip to lip.kisses and fingering
4) 15th July---- Protected Oral and Protected Vaginal...This time the condom was slipped and my penis was exposed in her vagina for nt more than 4 5 seconds..
5) 25 August Protected Oral and Protected Vaginal...Condom was intact....Deep.kissing Involved for 4 5 minutes
MY CONCERN IS FOR HIV...KINDLY SUGGEST...NEED OF TESTING AND CHANCES OF INFECTION
EARLY AND EXPLAINED RESPONSE WILL BE APPRECIATED.Thnks in Advance
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You've already been advised you had no risk for HIV. NOTHING you wrote is a risk and therefore, you can NOT get HIV or HAVE hiv. So, lymph nodes, aches pains or anything else going on is NOT due to HIV.
Risks for HIV:
unprotected vaginal sex, unprotected anal sex and sharing IV drug needles. That's it. No risk
Risks for HIV:
unprotected vaginal sex, unprotected anal sex and sharing IV drug needles. That's it. No risk
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Thnks for comment bhai....I wat 2 ask 2 3 questions regarding my past experiences....Actually in the above stated cases....I dnt know the status of the condom as at that time i was drunk....I wore it each and every time...checked it...But on 2 occasions it was the girl who removed it....and i hadnt asked her about the status of condom....I got married last month ...and nt able to sex with my wife because of these incidents....and have fear to go for HIV test...Plz can u tell me the chances if
1) Condom broke both times
2) Is it possible to distinguish between symotioms of corona or any other infection or flu
1) Condom broke both times
2) Is it possible to distinguish between symotioms of corona or any other infection or flu
1 If a condom fails it is a large rip down the seam and it hangs in tatters and is difficult to take off ---- that didn't happen so you need to move on.
2. No one can diagnose disease from symptoms so you need to move on from that idea. You are wasting your life sort of pretending to yourself that you can be like a doctor but you don't have any training.
Your situation is straightforward. You don't trust the advice here and you don't even trust your own recollection of the events because you keep changing them. Take a test and then when you get negative you won't waste the rest of your life wondering if something happened when you were drunk.
Since you said you are afraid to test, then that makes zero sense -only diagnosis is performed by a test, not by someone listening to you or looking at you. You have already wasted this whole year in fear just because you are afraid to test. It is ridiculous that you are living a sexless married life because you are afraid to find out you might have a disease, so now is the time to become a man, get some courage, and change your life and marriage by doing the right thing.
2. No one can diagnose disease from symptoms so you need to move on from that idea. You are wasting your life sort of pretending to yourself that you can be like a doctor but you don't have any training.
Your situation is straightforward. You don't trust the advice here and you don't even trust your own recollection of the events because you keep changing them. Take a test and then when you get negative you won't waste the rest of your life wondering if something happened when you were drunk.
Since you said you are afraid to test, then that makes zero sense -only diagnosis is performed by a test, not by someone listening to you or looking at you. You have already wasted this whole year in fear just because you are afraid to test. It is ridiculous that you are living a sexless married life because you are afraid to find out you might have a disease, so now is the time to become a man, get some courage, and change your life and marriage by doing the right thing.
Sorry the first sentence should have been this. Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air ( lips, mouth, oral sex, kissing etc.).
4. The only risk is if the vaginal involved unprotected. Only the head needs protection for you to be safe. What do you mean by condom "slipped"? Did you mean it was still on you but slipped a little bit up the shaft?
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Yes....U Got It r8...It was exactly the same...Tip was protected
Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air ( penis, ejaculation, etc.). No hiv worries, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this question. Did I do any of the 3? Then after you say "No, I didn't" then it's time to move on back to your happy life.
You can't get hiv when you use a condom. If a condom fails it is a large rip down the seam so it hangs in tatters and is difficult to take off. Obviously that didn't happen or you would know. Your test was a waste of time so move on and forget about these non-events.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this question. Did I do any of the 3? Then after you say "No, I didn't" then it's time to move on back to your happy life.
You can't get hiv when you use a condom. If a condom fails it is a large rip down the seam so it hangs in tatters and is difficult to take off. Obviously that didn't happen or you would know. Your test was a waste of time so move on and forget about these non-events.
Thnk u very much for ur Response dear
Enjoy your life.
Hello Anxious.....I have a new question arises in my mind from past 2 days...I have a strong feeling like my lymph nodes are swollen as one part of my neck is a little bulky as compared to the other one...On gentle press no sign of swelling is visible...Neither on seeing..On stretching muscles...There is a long nerve like structure feeled from back of head to jaw...Temperature from last 2 days is around 98-99 as noticed....And my last encounter was in september...18....With complete protected oral and insertive sex...Kindly help again
It is time for you to answer my question above that I copied here>>> ".....so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this question. Did I do any of the 3? Then after you....."
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