Yes improper application of a condom can cause failure and in your situation eventhough you did not apply the condom correctly it did not fail
I understand it did not fail. You're saying that improper use alone such as I outlined is not enough to put me at risk as long as condom remains intact? But the danger is that improper use could cause the condom to fail(break or fall off)?
Your question was, "Could some explain what proper use of condom means? " You were given the link as to how to correctly use a male condom and that video explains it explicitly.
You said that the condom did not fail, so you never had an exposure and to make sure you don't have an exposure watch the video.
Teak, my question is wether or not I put myself at risk.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gXlcEJhYVuc