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Oral sex again, answers different from theone i get in france
hello
im a french 35 years old male (so please excuse me for my bad english), i received 3 or 4 unprotected blowjobs in 4 years performed by unknown people ,and i m very anxious about that.
In fact, im so anxious that i read all forums worldwide.... On your forum, i read that oral sex is safe ! I would like to beleive it ! But in france, forums and doctors i talked with, say it's very low risk except if there's blood in your partner mouth and if you have a cut on your penis(but there is always a risk). Some say that the quantity of blood must be very important, others say that only a microcuts is enough (almost invisible), .... thats not clear.
The only thing they agree with, is that theres a real risk for HIV for the personn who perform the blowjob , because can swallow sperm, or sperm can encounter a opended cut (even very small in the mouth).and it seems logical. Without ejaculation the risk is even lower , but still exists for the performer if the receiving guys has cuts or soon his penis....
WOW.
In the same way, i ve read on other amercicans forums that french kiss is also a risk ! (same reason : blood in the mouth...) and that there is always a risk for oral sex, whatever the case.
who's wrong who's right?
u all seem so sure about the fact that oral sex is totally safe !!!.
ty for your answers.
im a french 35 years old male (so please excuse me for my bad english), i received 3 or 4 unprotected blowjobs in 4 years performed by unknown people ,and i m very anxious about that.
In fact, im so anxious that i read all forums worldwide.... On your forum, i read that oral sex is safe ! I would like to beleive it ! But in france, forums and doctors i talked with, say it's very low risk except if there's blood in your partner mouth and if you have a cut on your penis(but there is always a risk). Some say that the quantity of blood must be very important, others say that only a microcuts is enough (almost invisible), .... thats not clear.
The only thing they agree with, is that theres a real risk for HIV for the personn who perform the blowjob , because can swallow sperm, or sperm can encounter a opended cut (even very small in the mouth).and it seems logical. Without ejaculation the risk is even lower , but still exists for the performer if the receiving guys has cuts or soon his penis....
WOW.
In the same way, i ve read on other amercicans forums that french kiss is also a risk ! (same reason : blood in the mouth...) and that there is always a risk for oral sex, whatever the case.
who's wrong who's right?
u all seem so sure about the fact that oral sex is totally safe !!!.
ty for your answers.
click on forums at the top of the page. go to the expert forum...right hand side of page. then click on hiv prevention and hiv international.
you can click on each of the drs names to read their bios.
you can click on each of the drs names to read their bios.
ty for your answers. i feel a little bit better evn if i guess what u write concern insertive blowjob and not receiptive. I ll tell you soon my results, 3 days to wait... probably the longest of my life...
But who are dr Hook an dr Garcia(so that i can check it)
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But who are dr Hook an dr Garcia(so that i can check it)
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relax oral is not risk dont be like me and get your self stressed out for 3 months thinking you have hiv then get your negative hiv test.
from the hiv specialists here at medhelp:
There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex. The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way. Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk". There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".
DR. HANSFIELD
"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Please educate yourself about the real risks. If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. " DR HANSFIELD
"I am sure you can find lots of people who belive that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..." DR HOOK
"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK
in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA
The observation on thousand and thousand of observations is that HIV is not spread by oral sex (of any sort). DR. HOOK
There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex. The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way. Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk". There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".
DR. HANSFIELD
"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Please educate yourself about the real risks. If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. " DR HANSFIELD
"I am sure you can find lots of people who belive that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..." DR HOOK
"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK
in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA
The observation on thousand and thousand of observations is that HIV is not spread by oral sex (of any sort). DR. HOOK
great and helpfull answer ! TY.
anybody else, a little bit more informative .
I dont what is the problem with France, just remember that the HIV has benn discovered by 2 french in Pasteur institute.
I just want advices and confrontation with those therories, i have a lot of respect for american scientists thats why i come here.
sorry
anybody else, a little bit more informative .
I dont what is the problem with France, just remember that the HIV has benn discovered by 2 french in Pasteur institute.
I just want advices and confrontation with those therories, i have a lot of respect for american scientists thats why i come here.
sorry
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