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Oral sex
met this guy the other night for drinks. Tuesday March 9th. We end up back at my place later that night. One thing led to another and we starting making out and then foreplay started. He started giveing me oral sexy "he did this several times" I responded back and did the same to him. " Just one time" Also body contact with both our manhoods touching.So the night went on and we both finished on our self. We never went any further then oral. So the next day he texted me and said if we want to take this any further he wanted to let me know he is poz and on meds to supress it. I am so overly freaked out now that I have got it I dont know what to do? Should I go get tested? How much at risk am I at? I am really at a loss now and freaking out about this. Any one have any advice on what I should do?
NO RISK AT ALL... Since he's on meds..even if any astronomical chance to get HIV is more & more reduced. Relax..I bet you don't acquire HIV from the incident you described.Dr. HHH, the real expert may suggest you to meet a psychatrist to relieve your tensions. Next time be careful.
Thank you all for the coments and the posts. You have made my day a little easyer now. I still think I am going to go get tested in a cupple of weeks just for peace of mind.
So how long should I wait to get tested? And what kind of test should I have done?
There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex. The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way. Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk". There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".
DR. HANSFIELD
"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Please educate yourself about the real risks. If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. " DR HANSFIELD
"I am sure you can find lots of people who belive that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..." DR HOOK
"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK
in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA
DR. HANSFIELD
"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Please educate yourself about the real risks. If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. " DR HANSFIELD
"I am sure you can find lots of people who belive that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..." DR HOOK
"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK
in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA
by H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D., Mar 09, 2010 02:40PM
Theoretical only, no proved cases. Safe sex means no bare penis inside another person's vagina, rectum, or mouth. Nothing else matters!
medhelp doctors saying what i'm saying. so my question is not off criteria.
do you tell the students that you speak to hiv is no risk for oral?
Theoretical only, no proved cases. Safe sex means no bare penis inside another person's vagina, rectum, or mouth. Nothing else matters!
medhelp doctors saying what i'm saying. so my question is not off criteria.
do you tell the students that you speak to hiv is no risk for oral?
I can't comment on what the CDC say. Thats not my place. However, I can tell you and perhaps if you were to read through the expert forums, including the international ones, you would better educate yoursefl to the fact that oral sex does not (and why it does not) pose a risk for HIV infection.
Hopefully it would also stop you from replying with unhelpful comments.
Hopefully it would also stop you from replying with unhelpful comments.
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