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Oral sex
Dear doctors. I m a 29 year old bisexual men (i ve had partners that are genetic and transexual women).
Yestday i had sex with a Thai transexual escort. She performed protected anal on me, it did hurt but no bleeding and I tested the condom with water afterwards.
She performed unprotected oral on me, I did feel her teeth and asked her to stop. I performed a very short unprotected oral on her, no ejaculation, probably some precum.
The unprotected oral is getting me dead worried. We also engaged in some deep kissing and i did notice some blood on her gums at the end of that. So now i m worried i got her blood on my penis when she performed oral sex, although i dont remember seeing any blood after oral sex. I m also worried that I got infected by performing oral. What I ve read online is terrifying and implies there is a documented risk.
I have a very dry painless pimple on my urethra, has been around for ever as far as i can tell and i tested negative hiv and other stds in april. I dont know what the pimple in and am worried it could increase my chances of getting infected.
I did ask her if she tested and she said of course. I understand prevalence in thailand is now rather low but probably higher with transexual escorts. Although I would assume some form of testing goes on when breast surgery is performed. And that an escort that can travel to the uk is probably not supporting the cost of triteraphy.
As you can see i m worried, confused and probably make little sense. I m counting the day until i can get the duo test.
Would you recommend pep for my exposure?should I worry?
Thank you
Yestday i had sex with a Thai transexual escort. She performed protected anal on me, it did hurt but no bleeding and I tested the condom with water afterwards.
She performed unprotected oral on me, I did feel her teeth and asked her to stop. I performed a very short unprotected oral on her, no ejaculation, probably some precum.
The unprotected oral is getting me dead worried. We also engaged in some deep kissing and i did notice some blood on her gums at the end of that. So now i m worried i got her blood on my penis when she performed oral sex, although i dont remember seeing any blood after oral sex. I m also worried that I got infected by performing oral. What I ve read online is terrifying and implies there is a documented risk.
I have a very dry painless pimple on my urethra, has been around for ever as far as i can tell and i tested negative hiv and other stds in april. I dont know what the pimple in and am worried it could increase my chances of getting infected.
I did ask her if she tested and she said of course. I understand prevalence in thailand is now rather low but probably higher with transexual escorts. Although I would assume some form of testing goes on when breast surgery is performed. And that an escort that can travel to the uk is probably not supporting the cost of triteraphy.
As you can see i m worried, confused and probably make little sense. I m counting the day until i can get the duo test.
Would you recommend pep for my exposure?should I worry?
Thank you
As you were told on another forum also you never had a risk of contracting HIV from oral sex and that is also the stance of this forum.
I understand my experience is probably low or no risk.
Just so you know, I have good reasons to believe she lied to me about her hiv status. I called her recently and asked her again, she told me she tested before coming to the uk as she needed it for the visa.
I ve researched the topic and found out this is bs. No testing requirement for UK visa as in most civilized nations I guess (that would be barbaric in my mind). But anyway seems she s lying, i can only conclude she is hiv + and probably not on meds given the state of public health in thailand....
Scary
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