Please let me know HIV risk and if HIV testing is needed

[bluegreen75]

Visited TS escort

-I gave her a hand job
-she gave me a hand job
-I used the same hand that I gave her a hand job with to masturbate myself (could pre-cum transfer here?)
-she used same on that was on her penis to give me a hand job (could pre-cum transfer here?)
-penises may have touched briefly (is this a risk?)
-I rubbed her body and licked breasts and other upper body areas
-I performed blow job with a condom on (no ejaculation)
-I touched her butt and close to anus with my finger but did not enter anus
-her penis touch my legs at one point
-we both masturbated until completion (came on our own body, not on each other)
-she provided wipes for me after, I gave her my wipes and in the process touched one of her wipes that could of had her cum on it (could that be a risk for HIV)
-what if the couch had someone else's fluids (cum) on it and I sat down on it with bare legs (could that be a risk?)

So, those are the details.  I would greatly appreciate it if someone could take my concerns seriously.  Can you please let me know these two things?

1.Do I need to go get an HIV test?  If so, please let me know when.
2. What is my risk for HIV from the events described above?

THANK YOU!

[AnxiousNoMore]

You had no risk and a test would be a waste of time.

HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  

Only adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make your encounter a risk for HIV.