Please please help

[I_feel_rubbish]

Hi,

I feel worried about this kind of exposure that I had last month - and I have found out that he is bisexual and poss slept with a lot of male partners.  Basically, it felt right and we ended up at my place together, one thing lead to another and all, we ended up naked together but there a few points I am worried about - I was on top of him at one point and he was touching himself - but there wasn't any penetration although he was touching me.  We never ended up having penetrative eex but there was touching and stuff.

I know this probably sounds paranoid but I realised I had made a mistake the next morning and we spoke to each other and he said he was feeling shivery and not too well.  All kinds of worrying things started going through my mind like maybe he is positive and what if... etc!

I am so confused!!!!!!

[I_feel_rubbish]

Ok thanks

[allthesigns]

The fact that he is bisexual and may have slept with a lot of male partners does put him in a high risk category for HIV, but by no means does feeling "shivery and not too well" indicate HIV.  He could have caught the flu or a cold.  Even if he does have HIV though, there is no possible way you could get it from your situation.  

[I_feel_rubbish]

Thanks, but do the symptoms mean that he could be?

[allthesigns]

You don't get HIV from being touched by a positive partner.  No risk.