Is it still possible?

[Belise12]

Hi,

So about 7 weeks ago I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend of 3 years.
Now she lives in Korea I met her about 7 weeks ago and 3 days later I had a white discharge and pain during Urination I went to see a doctor and they gave me antibiotics.
Later I asked her to go get tested for STDs and she did and every std on list came back negative.
So the dr. It’s possible because you had sex when she was in her period and that irritated your penis.

So at 5.7 weeks later I did Oraquick and my results came back negative.
I asked my girlfriend who lives in Korea to test again for hiv and she tested using Oraquick and her result is negative.

I know for sure she doesn’t cheat and I know I didnt cheat because during the whole time I lived in the Middle East (you know how it’s there)
Is it possible that I may have HIV? She gave it to me because of her period blood? Did we creat hiv by  sex?

Also, I have noticed red spots on my bicep mainly after waking up that disappears within the same day... I’m freakin out could that be a symptom?

Lastly, do we need to test again? Every where I read they say you will need to have HIV to give HIV but I’m freaking out

Please help!

[GuitarRox]

Men get discharge unrelated to std's and hiv.  

Your girlfriend is going to leave you because you are not looking at what is really the problem here which is your anxiety.  You are probably driving her crazy with it.  Talk to your doctor about this before she decides she has had enough.  

[Belise12]

Can we by chance get HIV if we are both negative?  Can anxiety cause similar symptoms? I feel like I’m losing my mind and I can’t bare seeing her cry every time I bring this up..

[Chima7]

I can't understand how you would think that HIV would just appear out of thin air between 2 negative people. Obviously that does not happen. It's pretty clear at this point that your problem is anxiety and not HIV. I strongly advise you to seek out therapy to help you get past this irrational health anxiety.

[AnxiousNoMore]

Also I can't understand how you have no idea how disease is transmitted despite seeing doctors recently. You should ask about that theory of yours the next time you see one. Negative people can't get disease from other negative people so your idea is quite silly.

[Belise12]

Last comment from me I hope..
So her Oraquick is conclusive knowing that she never cheated? Therefore, my result is also conclusive? Does that mean We don’t have to worry about HIV? Or do we need to test again?

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

As members have repeatedly stated, you are both negative for HIV and there is no concern that either one of you will get HIV from the other.  There is no reason to test further, and there is no additional advice this forum can offer.

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[AnxiousNoMore]

Oraquick has a 12 week window so if she didn't have any partners in that time prior to her test then she is conclusively negative. Same with your test. the rest of your post is irrelevant to hiv (especially that illogical fear in the last sentence of getting hiv from a negative person) , unless neither of you ever had any other partners, in which case you never needed to test.

[Belise12]

She never did. I’m sure of it. She’s not that kind of person.
She has been supportive and accepted to get tested but now she’s threatened to leave me because she think my fear is unbearable.

But what keeps my head spinning is why did I get this white discharge? If she tested negative for stds and can I still get hiv if she doesn’t have it.
What about my red rash on my bicep ?
Are they symptoms?

[Chima7]

It sounds like you should go see a urologist to figure out why you're having discharge. But you can't get HIV from someone who doesn't have it. It doesn't just appear out of thin air. Someone has to be infected for it to infect someone else.

[Belise12]

I have been treated for the discharge.. but I’m just confused of how I got it in the first place? And if that possible then isn’t HIV possible?
I’m terrified